In a sexless marriage...or even an uneven relationship....from a woman's perspective, my confidence and overall opinion of myself did take quite a hit when hubby does chose to show no affection  (except an occasional peck) or even interest in sex anymore.  A long while back a comment was made that if things did get down to me wanting to leave because of this, he would get things checked into before he would lose me.  That is no longer even a thought....which tells me I (or us) am not worth the effort.  I had to fight to get past feeling unattractive, undesirable, and unwanted.

I am curious, for men does this affect your opinion or attitude of yourselves?  It seems most men are much more self assured and something like this may not phase them.  (If so, I do wish you all could share the secret of how to do this .  I do grow tired of sometimes feeling responsible for his issues.)