Healthy Relationships Support Group
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Pleasent greetings to all here. I have a question I would like to ask which may be some benifit ot the group. How much does chemistry matter in a relationship?
I am an older male and have only had a few relationships with a few women There were times when I was younger and was a time when I was extremely young where I had
a crush on a girl my age. Has anyone ever found the same feeling of chemistry to happen to them in a dating relationship situation or even in a work situation where you were
just out to be friends and found the electricity and or chemistry to be undeniably "there" in a relationship? And if so, How important is the degree of chemistry as a factor when
considering becoming a couple and in declaring to see only each other? And if the chemistry is low yet compatability high too what extent should or would you take it such as...
Stop seeing the person or keep seeing the person and see what happens and then what happens if by chance you meet a person you share tremoundous likes and the chemistry with
and this happenss after you already have established relationship with someone that you have less chemistry with?
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Hey All...I hope that you have a lovely, peaceful beginning of your weekI have a bunch of chores that need doing but may put them off til tomorrow and just hang out with my landlord/roomie todayWhat about you?...Anything special going on?Have a great day and take good care of you!!..Xo
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Once again I've had a fever today. I'm not going to the hospital because that's a huge waste of time but I did schedule a dr appointment for Wednesday afternoon.

Chemistry is always highest in the beginning and it slowly declines. I think it is very likely you will meet many people with whom you have a stronger "chemistry" than your long-term partner. You don't have to act on it, and if you are committed to your partner, just walk away.
If you are in a good relationship but part of it is something that requires some work then I would make an effort in those areas before giving into something due to an attraction that may be over with after a date
Not only there are different levels of attraction and how it begins and unfolds, but another variable Is also what YOU want from a relationship and where you are as a person when it comes to trust, openness, etc.