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This is unstable. Is this what you want?
Is he on the lease?
My ex-h, I found out was on three sex-hookup ones (if you want the names, message me), I found out when he accidentally left his fake email account open on the computer. I had no clue, was shocked!!!
Just a thought, if you're having doubts what he'd doing...
As for faking you don't know, well, I guess it depends, on if you can deal with the idea he's sleeping with other people (while sleeping with you)? Some can, I could not. I'd be pissed!! If you can't, don't bother pretending, tell him what you know. And take it from there.
Once you confront, there is a very high likelihood he'll deny it, and he'll take it further underground/ hid it (which will leave you feeling further confused, or thinking things are ok, when they're really not).
Good luck!!
The thing is, even if you confront him, it probably wont get anywhere because he will immediately make up some bullshit to make it look like you are the crazy one..
I d probably just make up some lie as to why we have to break up..
I dont usually lie, but this would be one case to get my name off the lease peacefully..
I am so sorry :-(
I would boot him out.
(((hugs)))