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I'm curious about how you guys/gals would feel if you found out your partner (who happens to love saunas) who was away at a place where there was a unisex hot tub (closest thing to a sauna), was in it with members of the opposite sex.
The circumstances where always supervised, and there had to be a minimum of two people in it at a time (vs just one person going by themselves). So, if someone wanted to use it, they had to find someone else to use it with.
How comfortable would you be knowing your partner still went into the hot tub - even if it were with a member of the opposite sex?
The circumstances where always supervised, and there had to be a minimum of two people in it at a time (vs just one person going by themselves). So, if someone wanted to use it, they had to find someone else to use it with.
How comfortable would you be knowing your partner still went into the hot tub - even if it were with a member of the opposite sex?
But this is something I found out after the fact - that took place while he was away. So, not much I can do about it now, other than express my discomfort about it.
"Rub-a-dub in a hot tub! OWWWWW!!!"
Or from Trading Places: "Hey, bubbles, man! Say, man, when I was growin' up, we wanted jacuzzi, we had to fart in the tub!"