A few months ago, by boyfriend got into a crazy fight about a girl he knows that was getting way too flirtty with him. (The two of them had a little fling before we met that didn't last long, but I wonder just how they still about each other.) She would get all touchy-feely at their sporting events, and then started sending texts that women just shouldn't send man in commited relationships, and his responses were not so appropriate, either. The worst part of this was that he waited weeks to tell me - in fact, I found about it mostly on my own and had to drag an explination out of him. He said he didn't want to tell about it because he was afraid of how I'd react. I felt really hurt, because I believe that a relationship has to based on trust. I've always respected him enough to be nothing but hinest with him.
Well, he promised to talk to the gilr and put an end to their inapropriate texting. We moved along slowly, and eventually I built my trust back up, although from time to time, if he was late I'd wonder just what he was up to. Every thing was going well until last night...
Last night his cell phone rang, and I asked what was up, because we were expecting a text from a mutual friend. He said, nothing just a joke from *dan on my hockey team. He showed me: it was a messege from Dan, but from last week! I scrolled up to the most recent one, and can you guys who it was? The flirty girl from over the summer!
Now, I'm over this girl. I've never liked her, and I don't feel like she's worth me wasting my breath over. But my boyfriend of two years looked me right in the eye told me bald-faced lie! Why?! I'm so mad and hurt. Not only do I feel like he's insulted me by lying, but he's shattered my trust. I know, it was a small lie, but to do it so casually... How can know when he's telling the truth if lying comes so easily?
Am I blowing things out of proportion? Has anything like this ever happened to you? I need to know if it's some thing I'll ever get over, because right now things are looking bleak...