Well you already don’t trust him based on your other post so I’m not even sure how you are moving forward with marrying a man you don’t trust.

I guess I wouldn't care if my the person I was marrying invited an ex he remained friends with but everything depends on the people involved. If you aren’t comfortable with him remaining friends with her, then you won’t be comfortable with anything having to do with her but really isn’t the issue him?

I agree with RMB. There seems to be bigger issues in your relationship, and yes, one of them is this ex of his, who you don't like him being in contact with, and so him inviting her to YOUR wedding just does not show much respect for your feelings and your wishes. And the whole thing with the girl from Vegas and he kept all of it from you.... have you guys worked out your trust issues completely... gone to therapy, etc?

Getting married will not fix existing problems in a relationship. A marriage license is no guarantee of him being faithful going forward.

This is supposed to be a happy memorable day for you. Why would he ruin it for you? He’s supposed to love you. Divorce is really hard. I would re evaluate the marriage. I’m sorry you’re going through this.

I am with you there lindsay

She’s his EX, he’s chosen you as his future. If there aren’t trust issues, who cares if she’s there or not? Now, if you don’t trust him, that’s a whole different issue and you probably shouldn’t be getting married to begin with. The problem isn’t the EX.....

I agree with rmb as well..... He seems to do whatever he wants without regard for you or your feelings

I don't think this is about his ex but about his disregard for your feelings...…

Marriage isn't going to make this better at all..... I hope you will really take some time to think about what you're getting into sweetie..... Do you want to be dealing with this 5 years from now...… Big hug.....xoo

Can you post pone the wedding ? Give it another year.. something just isn’t right here

I'm sorry for what you are dealing with., I have a similar issue with my bf talking to his ex and it just doesn't stop. You will unfortunately still have trust issues in the future if he cant care about your feelings. Your fiance doesnt seem to respect what's important to you. Mine is the same.
I understand u love him and its hard. I love my bf too and cant seem to do what's best for me.
I would wait on the marriage as well.
xo

Sounds to me like a total lack of respect for you. If I were you, I'd at the very least postpone the wedding and go to pre-marital counseling with him.

I would never marry a man who treated me like that. Never.

I think you should be honest with him and tell him you don't like the idea of his ex being at the wedding. This is your big day too. If they're 'good' friends now, then he should have no problem telling her how uncomfortable this is for you. His priority is your feelings.