Six months in...and NOW she tells you her living arrangement?

That seems really effing weird.

Tell me about it

Did you ever ask about her living arrangements before, and she lied? Or did you wait six months to ask?

Well she had told me her mom lived with her, but she failed to mention that the father of her dauther lived there also, untill and mutual friend told me.

My ex husband and i co-existed in the same house for a year and a half and both had separate lives. Neither of us could afford to pay the mortgage on our own and we didnt want to traumatize the kids more than they already have been by our impending divorce.
I was not happy about this arrangement and eventually it caused a lot of issues in my new relationship.
Eventually i got a better job and my ex and i topped living together.
The biggest problem is that she didnt tell you upfront.
I was never deceptive about my situation. Either way your situation is raising some questions because if she is telling the truth, she didnt come forward right away and if she is lying, then it is a big one for sure.
I m sorry she disappointed you. If i was to work this out , i would ask when is their arrangement going to end and let her know that withholding such important information is not OK, because if she wants to be with me, then i d better have a choice of whether or not i want to stay with someone who is living with an EX.
One thing i hate the most is living in ignorant bliss, forces upon be by another person. In the perfect world, it is great to be with a person who is just like us, but in reality i would rather be around someone who is honest about their skeletons in the closet (and i will accept it), than be surprised out of nowhere

Yes, I agree with Aronia. She lied, essentially, about her circumstances.

I agree with you Aronia

I also agree with Aronia

yeah, took six months to find out (found out from someone else) what else is she hiding? blegh...

How in the hell did she hide that for 6 months.

I would personally break it off due to the lying.

my bf lived with his wife for the first 1 and a half yrs of our relationship too.. they did have seperate rooms and it was for financial reasons as well.. then he moved here ..

but she did lie,. that is an issue

Maybe she lied to keep you and what she says now is true.

Lying by omission is the worst! My ex did it ALL the time. He always told me PARTS of the story. People who do this are showing their true personalities to you......DECEIVERS.....so, believe them when they show you! You better get used to being lied to right now if you go any further with this relationship.

And, remember....without healthy and upfront communication, there is no relationship; without respect, there is no love; and without trust, there is no reason to continue.

Lying by omission...

No one can tell another every single aspect of every part of their past and current circumstances. We can probably find some portion of their life, past or current, they neglected to tell us and consider it deception.

However this does seem to be a rather significant omission. The only question is the reason behind the omission and whether or not you trust her and can live with it.