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Depressed without him

courtneyvictoria
courtneyvictoria

 My boyfriend and I have six months have been going through ups and downs. To the point where he wanted to leave me. But now since Thursday he wants to be with me. I still don't feel like he wants me 100% because it's not back to normal.  He left yesterday for out of town to see his family and I've been missing him a lot and I don't know if it's because it's Christmas. I offered to drive out of town to meet up with his family after my family plans and he said no. he barely talks to me.    I've been depressed now and it's driving me crazy where I just want to text him and call him. We have tomorrow off for work and he'd rather go hang out with his friends then come home and see me and that bugs me. 

kary.aa
kary.aa
Just.... dont let your happiness depend on him. Trust me, that sucks. Move on without him. You might even find someone better and you'll look back and say "Why did I feel like that for him?". If he doesnt love you like you deserve to be (Im going to tell you that You are not getting loved enough), Hes just not worth it. Sure, It feels weird and horrid at first but once you get through it, it will be worth it. Hugs
Community LeaderSunCloudJD
SunCloudJD
You've been together for a very short time and this is usually the honeymoon stage ... The first few months is usually all romance... If he's being a jerk now I agree that he's not worth it
I saw your other post and if he wants to work through the problems he has with commitment and relationships he can do that but it's him that needs to do the work in that regard
Why would you want to put up with someone who's not treating you well?.... Big hug for you.....xo
koolman
koolman
Depressed without him, depressed with him...sounds like, basically, you're just depressed, and it's more than he or any one person can handle. Exercise, hobbies, friends, watching movies...I've found these are great ways to alleviate depression, restore a sense of well-being.
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