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I've had a crush on this guy for 16 years. There is just something about him. I dont think it will happen because he is good friends with my brother. Lately him and I have been communicating mildly, as i haven't seen or spoken to him in years. I was hoping he'd ask me what i was doing, etc just to go out for fun, but he has not. He replies to my emails all the time, but is very short. I'm thinking maybe I should just stop emailing him because it doesn't seem like he is to interested, or maybe its just me thinking he's not. Should i just drop it and not email back? Maybe by chance I may seem him out one night, he knows alot of people i know.
At the very least it would be a start. Emailing is fine as well but if you really want to know if this could turn into a serious relationship in my opinion it is better to hang out with him as friends for awhile and take it from there. Typed words such as emailing can easily be misunderstood because of the typed words and that is why I think it is better to hang out face to face. Hope this helps a bit. Wishing you the very best.
If he has any interest at all - he'll response to your absence.