Healthy Relationships Support Group
No relationship is perfect. A long-term relationship requires constant effort to understand each other, fix misunderstandings, solve problems and continue to grow as both individuals change and evolve. How we deal with our misunderstandings is the focus of this community. Join us to find support, get advice, and share your experience with your relationship.
i have been together with my boyfriend for over 3years now.its been a long distant relation since the beginning and its been almost seven months since we last met. we have been in pretty ugly fights before but we always make up. this time our relationship had really hit the rocks. we dont know how to save it not even sure if any of us wants to save it for that matter. i believe what we have is really special and i dont wanna give it up for some lame reason. sometimes i feel he hasnt really let his guards down as he gets offended quiet easily but i guess thats just him being immature and naive.we are two people who are very much in love but somehow we screw up and end up hurting each other. he recently got a job and is busy fixing himself up the corporate ladder and moved to a city even farther away than he previously was.
I guess an LD relationships is no different to any other with each one posing there own problems. I suppose all that matters is the commitment to each other?
the bond we once shared wasn't like anything else i ever experienced.we shared every little detail about our lives.if something happened and i did't tell him it was almost like it did't happen.but it's starting to go away.now there's this huge gap between us that keeps filling with everything we don't say to each other.we barely talk.
and now i'm beginning to wonder if it wasn't such a great idea after all.