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Last week, we had a fight. So, I'm trying to compromise a little. He likes to do out, but I'm not "part of his crowd" and also, I have issues with public and stuff. Long story. Anyways, I've agreed to go out with him and he's agreed to stay home with me. Give a little, take a little, right? So, my question or needed area of advice would be how to do this. How to go out for a few hours and not smother him with my anti-social tendancies. How do I have fun with him without him having to babysit me?
i suggest to try and be patient and face your fears when you are out....don't let fear rob you of joy...and don't let fear immoblize you....
while you are home, be as grateful as possible that he's willing to stay in with you and show him how grateful you are so that he knows you appreciate him compromising....
the good news is that the two of you are willing to compromise and work together so that you both can have some enjoyment and peace!
best wishes!