Healthy Relationships Support Group
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I had a really bad talk with my husband today and I will not be staying married to him... He moved out Feb 10th to his parents and has had little contact with our son since. He buys him toys from time to time when he has him and make a play day out of the time he has which is not fun to clean up the mess that leaves me when he returns him. I am done cleaning up the mess he leaves I have done it for too long. I did it when we first met 10 years ago when he was in school I would help him with his school work and fill in at work when he was too overwhelmed by school. And I even picked up extra jobs so he could decide what he was doing with his life and take time doing so... I am done with this... He called today to tell me yet again that I had done nothing with my life and that I was not worth his time. So to that I say goodbye.. I have blocked his number until I am ready to talk to him. I am filing the divorce papers again and going back to school and caring for my son all while he does the smallest things for our son by some times showing up to a soccer game or taking him to dinner. I am done saying daddy is working but will just say daddy is too busy. I am done with being told I am not worth the time or money. I put in my time supporting my husband and when it came to me staying home with our son while he was not in school and in 1/2 day preschool he could not do the same for me I am done being told to just put our son in daycare even though I was not making enough to cover that cost plus my added travel and such.
I am curently married to a guy that would say I cheat because you are depressed. I am sorry but I was not depressed but was building walls around myself for protection of our son and I when you started bringing these women to my house saying you now after 10 years wanted to open our marriage I am sorry but NO. I am not sorry that one day your son will know the real you and never want to talk to you again.
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Due to my increased paranoia, anxiety, and a panic attack over the weekend, my psychiatrist has put me back in a full dose of Zyprexa until further notice. Every time I think I'm getting ahead something happens and it's back to square one. I knew he was gonna do this but I can't help feeling disappointed. It is what it is.
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Well, good morning to you!Today is National Roller Coaster Day. Are any of you going?It's also National Tell-A-Joke Day! Come up with some and share!I'm not bright with jokes these days, but I'll start:"Today I ordered a chicken and an egg from Amazon...I'll let you know." :D
I would try and nurture a healthy relationship with your son and his dad..... Both parents have every right to their child unless an agency or court finds otherwise
No matter how angry you are at your ex unless you truly believe your son is in danger I would not try and take away his Dad .... This could come back to bite you in a huge way .... Parental alienation in a divorce court could mean you could lose your child.... Just sayin...... Courts are very aware of this tactic and it would hurt the son that you love
I would work with your lawyer and follow his/her advise.... Your lawyer will be working with both you and your sons' best interest in mind
Big hug.....xo