Healthy Relationships Support Group
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My boyfriend and I broke up because he became too busy for a romantic relationship. He started working overtime and his mom has stage 4 cancer.
I would like to call him to see how they're doing but I don't know if I should.
Ugh the sucker in me says its ok to see how his mom is doing. Stage 4 is a big deal! Did you know his mom?
But like others have said it may not be a good idea.
I'm no dating expert here or relationship expert. But I do know how breakups can lower our self confidence and if we keep feeding that lowered self confidence, we'll then we will hurt ourselves. Best to stay single for a bit, and heal you. Sounds like you are really heartbroken. Which that too can make for dating errors and meeting the wrong people because someone gave us attention. Im sorry if it sounds harsh, not ment to be. Just been down that road before myself and what I have learned from it.