I think if you love someone and they love you, you can make it work with a " not normal" person. I am pretty much proof of that.
Unfortunately, just like you I get bored with normal.

But most people aren't as boring as you think . . .

I probably come across as one of those "nice, boring" women. haha! I'm a little freak inside. Are you giving these women enough time?

I never thought of that way

Its the quite ones you gotta watch out for ;D we surprise you

^5, Bonnie! That is exactly right! lol

What's your definition of boring? What's your definition of normal?

Is a woman that doesn't bring on a ton of drama, conflict, confusion and chaos boring to you or do you mean sitting around watching TV twiddling her thumbs as being boring?

I would say I'm pretty normal (whatever normal means), I don't create drama, conflict, confusion and chaos but I would also say I'm very far from boring.

Find a "normal" woman that is exciting, adds thrills to your life but isn't chaotic and a drama queen.

I am attracted to unstable woman that bring alot of drama lol.

do you think you're attracted to these type of women, because you feel the need to save them (the savior complex), or simply because you're bored and like the excitement of not knowing what lurks around that next corner?

I've recently dated two men who fell into both categories? For the most part, the savior complex seemed to be the main driver (helped them feel useful, saving the damsel in distress). Whereas my exH, simply don't care about saving other people, relished in the thought that others had it worse than him, loved the chaos (seeing others suffer more than him). If that makes sense?

I think its the savior complex, I notice now so that's a start.

It's a running joke with me and my choices that I need to find a nice accountant that mountain bikes for a hobby.....

I also am attracted to the insane, unstable, womanizing, self-centered, arrogant type. The bigger the ass they are, the more I like them it seems. I have a self-destructive streak smile wide.

My decisions are based on my personal outlook. I'm damaged goods and not in any headspace for a relationship with a "decent guy". Your choices are based on your self-worth.

When you find out let me know. Your not the only sufferer I'm sure

Stillbitt, yep. Your exactly right. Smart chick. :)

Maybe, as awesome self said, maybe you're not looking CLOSELY enough at those "boring" women, to discover the freak inside!

I tend to like a woman who touches my core brilliance, or my core craziness, my core eccentricity. I am NOT attracted to those DARKLY crazy, dramatic possessive types. THEY, unfortunately, are attracted to ME.

Don't settle for boring, I speak from experience when I say this.......boring aka safe.......doesn't seem so wise anymore! seems like a sentence

You call in the type of person you think you deserve on a subconscious level so I think it is a combination of being codependent (the savior thing) and low self esteem. You should get some books on the topic or maybe seek some therapy because you'll keep calling in the same type of women until your core beliefs about yourself change. Good luck!