Healthy Relationships Support Group
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I have found myself reading some of the profiles of the people in this discussion and all I can say WOW!!!
I understand now why so many have relationship issues. I want to make this perfectly clear this IS NOT about judging, criticizing or condemning anyone.
But is it right to enter into a relationship with unresolved issues?
I understand now why so many have relationship issues. I want to make this perfectly clear this IS NOT about judging, criticizing or condemning anyone.
But is it right to enter into a relationship with unresolved issues?
Starts from relationship with yourself first too.
What brought about the question was what I read in a number of statements. Some of the statements I read started out talking about how their relationship had changed, but when I continued to read their statement it went on to say that either they entered into the relationship and did not inform their partner of their issues until months or years later or they found out later that their partner had an issue and now a painful decision has to made about the relationship.
What I was looking for was answers for those who are asking themselves this very question. Should I enter a relationship with the problem(s) I have.
What I would like to see is relationship stories that tells why you did or did not entered into a relationship. What steps you and your partner took to make things work or what cause it not to work. That would be very helpful to those seeking answers and how to.
There seems to be some who are taking this thing personal. I dont know you or your problems. I do know there are people hurting in relationships they should not have entered into. Also there are those who desire to have a relationship who are afraid to enter a relationship for a whole host of reasons.