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Dear Love,
Today is March 14, 2022, and is Louie's birthday. I'm not sure how I feel, it's been a river of emotions and it doesn't trigger any war within, on the contrary, it feels bittersweet. You see he was my best friend, my confidant, my medical consultant, my quick fix and handyman, kinda like the Jack of all trades type of Guy. Very Smart, outgoing, charismatic yet was a bit mean. I used to be the one to remind him to be nice. Anyway, I realize, healthy relationships start within, I'm not much of a person who contemplates making others happy before my own, however, at times we wish to contribute the love we feel with those who still would reject because we don't just stop loving nor caring, and I'm learning to be okay with personal boundaries also known as a personal choice. The person is in their right to deny love but it is also and of utmost importance for me to remain amicable, lovable and that is the difference I see in me. It doesn't cost me my own peace to wish Louie the father of my children, a Happy Birthday on this day, on the contrary, it would be a sin not to acknowledge God's grace in the life of my family. Therefore, it is a privilege and gift from God to respectfully pay forward the gift with a positive outlook for all of us. God bless and Happy Birthday to you Louie.
Sincerely,
Yours Truly
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check out that smoke ring. It tasted really good. I smothered it with Maulls BBQ sauce which is Local to St. Louis and one of the best I ever had.....
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I was recently separated from my wife of 33 years and it's complicated. Anyway I rented a room about 15 minutes away and I see my kids about once a week. I see the people who own the house I live in once in a while but other than that I stay in my room where I do my cooking, wash dishes in the shower, read, color, and sleep. I get out at least once a day. I grocery shop and I attend 2 meetings...
Side Note: I did notice you put dear love, however, this post seems to be more about you coming to the realization so what do you think About Dear, My Self-Realization to the one I use to Connect with ?
I'm fully aware of the fact there is nothing to hide under the sun nor under the moon nor the stars, it is all plain to see and even in the darkest hour, the Lord has come through at just the right time. I think therefore I am in union with my self-realization and the OneSource who's with me and not against me.
I might as well acknowledge the outer Master who cares to bring awareness to the platform while in the making. Thank you, My Dear Self-Realization the one I connect with.
God Bless