All humans are born with these two positive emotions, love and happiness, it is any wonder then why we strive to return there. Like the poster I have found my way back there, so it is indeed possible.

I have yet to attract positive people like me to me, but I have stopped attracting negative ones to me, so one out of two for now isn't bad.

fawn2015, I want your therapists # ! ;)

Not always. Sometimes unhealthy people are drawn to healthy people and create issues as a result. Yes, chances are higher for a healthy person to attack another healthy person, but it does not mean than they wont also have unhealthy people attracted to them.

gustokitty: I learned allot from watching Dr Phil :)

Christopher, when you're healthy, you can see those who are unhealthy. therefore waiting for the healthy person to enter. it takes longer, but it's worth the wait.

This is a great and helpful discussion!
@Fawn, in reply #9-I really like the idea of asking myself the important questions every day! Would help me stay focused.
@Vicky39, reply #10- Well said and I so agree! I have always believed that health starts on the inside. I believe that the mental, emotional, physical and spiritual are all closely connected. If one aspect suffers, the others often do too.
And @OldCodger, I think you are just a tiny step away from attracting "healthy." Apparently you are making great progress!