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Describe what you feel are the good qualities of yours. In my friendships, I enjoy a certain warmth, laughter, give-and-take in conversational communication and mutual understanding.
I didn't take it as racist at all.
A little "Vietnamese Honey" put a very cute and good visual in my head.
As much as this politically correct world wants to squelch all of our cultural differences, they are still there. They are not bad, unless the person hearing them is perceiving them as bad.
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Maybe it's some weird glitch for me from having been in a biracial marriage once upon a time.
I would have felt... uncomfortable..
If he referred to me constantly as his white woman.
And..I know he'd have been taken aback if I always said my black lover..then my dark skinned black husband.....
Anyway..
Really no offense meant..
Thought you might like to hear how some perceive it.
I GET that it's part of her appeal to you.
My beautiful woman friend.. my witty, intelligent companion....
Anyway
'Nuff said.
No harm meant
Hugs
Jc
I hope this link works! ha ha.. couldn't resist!
Haha. Very Funny. :-) :-) :-)
@ShastaSue, Good one, I thought it was Jimmy Fallon for a second. I think Jimmy does Bowie better than Bowie. LMAO!
It is simply a description. Being Asian just sets her apart from the most frequent combo of white dating white.
People can not change their sexual preferences. Koolman is a good person, he is a good man and if he likes Asian women - who cares?
You are so against discrimination but yet you are doing it yourself without even realizing it by singling out Koolman and slamming him for his preferences.
i personally find bondage to be creepy but I would never sit there on my high horse and put down a group of people who find it attractive, kwim?
I m not trying to make you feel bad or shame you, I am just pointing out to you that flexibility in thought can actually help you to have positive, healthy relationships.
What gives you the right to speak of him this way?
Seriously?
I agree with Aronia!
Just wanted to say that.
So, Koolman is not in a relationship that meets your standards of a relationship, but at least he helps people by being there for them in whatever capacity he can, but you don't see that. You just want to insult him.
Good grief.