Thank you for offering the above title for my husband and I to read. We really hit a rocky part of our marriage. I had every desire to leave--I felt we had been here before and we just weren't moving forward-I had packed up the car one night and - after meeting me for coffee, we decided it would be best for me to move into another bedroom in the house and take time apart, yet together to work on the issues. Two things hold us together---God and the fact that we BOTH really want to make this marriage work. After almost four weeks, we have finally broke through and made many gains. The book was a big help as we each have a copy and spend time talking about what it means to us in terms of re-building...so--thank you. Nothing good comes easy. A healthy marriage takes commitment, give and take and perseverance in the desire to make it happen. The rewards are everlasting.