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derby800
derby800
My live in girlfriend of nine months( 64 years old) just announced to me that she is moving to Idaho from here in florida to be a nanny for her son and wife. she told me that there is no passion in our relationship. she then told me that we do have a future but not now. she left her bike here and she said when she comes back here to visit we can ride the beach. anyone have an opinion or advice?
lb7268
lb7268
Well it sounds like she was needed by her family. You do not own her and can't control her. Just be happy that she is talking about coming back at some point. Do you really want to be with her ? When they say no passion, that is a problem. That is what my ex said to me. If I were you, I would open my mind to the possibility of looking for someone new.
derby800
derby800
thanks for the reply. i do love her. maybe the time apart will be good for both of us
Community LeaderSunCloudJD
SunCloudJD
I'm so sorry that you've been hurt derby.... It 'sounds' to me like she may be moving on... Not sure... It doesn't sound like anything was discussed with you and then she said there's no passion..

I don't think I would want to put myself into waiting under these circumstances... You've only been seeing her for 9 months and depending on the ages of the children she could be gone for a very long time

Big hug and a blessing....xo
derby800
derby800
thank you, you are probably right. I think she just wants to be friends. what is hard to understand is that she told me we do have a future, just not now. she said she needs to get bac back to the temple and get closer to god
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