Grandparents Raising Children Support Group
This community is dedicated to grandparents who are the primary caregivers of their grandchildren. In cases where the parents are not willing or able to provide adequate care for their children, grandparents may take on the role of primary caregivers. Join the support group to find support, share your experience, and get advice from other members.
When you are on the B & N or Borders site read the reviews that others have posted on the book which may help you make a decisions which one to start with. That's what I do if I can't get a reccomendation from anyone here.
Good luck and keep us posted, we might need a reccomendation for this subject some day.