I've never had trouble making friends with heterosexual women and even a few lesbians. However, it seems as though finding good gay male friends has been trickier. I've had a few, but nothing as deep as with the straight female friends I've had. The emphasis with my gay male friends seems to have been mainly on partying and going out to bars and clubs. Furthermore, it seems like sex usually enters the equation somewhere with gay males--one person seems to be attracted to the other and, if it's not reciprocated, it kind of sours things after a while. Just wondering if anyone out there has had the same experience with respect to gay friends. It would be nice to have a good gay male friend to talk to about similar experiences, especially now that I'm getting up there in years.
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