I just came out to my parents a few days ago. They have known for a few months that I was questioning, but I decided I needed to be up front with them and tell them that I was pretty certain that I'm lesbian. It went ok at first. My mom cried and wouldn't look at me for a bit. We discussed and she seemed to be ok, saying she accepted me for who I was even though she didn't like it. She talked to my dad, and he took the same stance.

Then, just the other day I was on DS looking for advice and reading people's responses. My mom came in and read over my shoulder. I got scared cause I didn't know how she would react so I quickly switched to Facebook instead. She freaked out completely! She accused me of being on a lesbian chat room and being homosexually obsessed. I'm just looking for advice from people who have been through what I have, but she accused me of taking advice from complete strangers instead of her and my dad. I told her that it's kinda hard for her to give me advice since she didn't go through what I'm going through. Then she went on a tirade about how she doesn't approve of my "choice" and that this isn't the life she wanted for me. She called me a dyke and in the heat of the anger I said that if she didn't want me to to be gay, then I guess Im not. I just wanted the fight to end, so I told her what she wanted to hear.

Now I'm in deep, because I made it sound like a choice. I know it's not, and that I've always felt this way, but she didnt want to hear that I'd always been like that. So I'm kinda stuck now. We are all just kind of pretending that this weekend didn't happen. What should I do? Did anyone else have a problem like this?