The wait after receiving a date is very difficult! Don't doubt your decision! Your health will improve, your mobility will improve and your self esteem will go through the roof! You can do this! Yes, it's a huge change and have to work hard, but so well worth it!
Took me awhile to feel this way ( now 7 wks out), but I feel great physically and I'm starting to see the weight change!
No feeling like it! I couldn't be more proud of myself!

Thanks Touky. I really hope Im ready. I guess I really couldnt prepare myself anymore though.

The fact that you are reaching out and being honest about your fears is awesome!! Keep talking about it and being honest with yourself. This will really help you when things get tough!!!

One of the things that my husband and I did before our surgeries was to make a list of all the things that we either missed out on or had to give up because of our weight gain. Some are silly and some are serious, but making the list gave us something to look forward to and focus on. It continues to help me stay on track. I am already planning our summer trip to amusement parks!

Best of luck to you!! You are going to do great :)

jj I understand the "sadden" because that is exactly how I felt. Sometimes I still do, but its hard to pinpoint why. I believe/feel it is because 1)I feel like a failure since I can't control this myself, 2) my lifestyle will change which also impacts my husbands lifestyle, 3) Guilt...for getting this way, impacting my family because I have to change. This list could go on and on.

BUT, I also know things will be so much better in a few months. It will all be worth it and my family is 100% supportive. Plus they know they will have be around a lot longer than if I had not had this done. :) No regrets!

*me around (not be) lol

Your fears are normal. This is a big deal and it will change your life in many ways. Ask for help, seek support here or with friends and family. It is sooooo worth it.

It's normal to be saddened, or nervous. Once they gave me my date I was like I had the devil on one shoulder and an angel on the other.

The devil was saying - how could you get like this, and now look what you're putting your family through.

The angel was saying ... airline seats, zip lines, restaurant booths, that awesome look you've always wanted - knee high boots, black tights and that winter dress.

The angel wins .... and I couldn't be happier that it's behind me. You will too. Embrace it ! You'll do great !!!

You've got this. Healthy feels so good! Good luck!

I was told in Oct. that if I wanted to live I needed to do this ... So I was THRILLED. Not just because I wanted to live but because I wanted to LIVE. Health, or cosmetic its all a wonderful reason to make a choice that's is for YOU! Its wonderful you have family support. Grab on with both hands and get excited, your life and your health is about to get a whole lot better!

Hi J, I have read lots and lots of information on the surgery's and have come to the conclusion that it is a very good thing. I am 58 and have been gaining weight for over 10 years. The last few years I have felt terrible I don't think I would live to see 68 if I don't do this. I am having the sleeve on 2/10 and am very excited. Keep checking out websites and there are some great stories on youtube on peoples jounerys. Good luck to you and keep us informed.

Thank You guys