Know you have the support & arms of the group around you.

Oh no!

Is your husband out on the road? Can you call him?

Ask your best friend or mom to come over?

I'm sorry you are feeling so sad. I know how that is.

Message me if you want.

(((Hugs)))

Hugs we have all expressed today our emotional feelings. Let the tears flow. And if you are not married and don't have a husband like myself, try calling a friend. And know that you have friends here!

I'm sorry you're feeliung so down. Is there someone you can call and be with to help you through this?

Be strong, sending big hugs your way.
Shelley

I am so sorry you are having a hard time. I hope you feel better soon. I deal with pain every day. It can really bring you down.It has to be hard to deal with everything on your own while your husband is gone. I hope he comes home soon. Take care.

big HUGS for you! I will be praying for you

I am sorry to hear of your hard times. It is hard when we get in that mood and quit crying. It is doubly hard when you have a special needs child. Do you have someone that can take the kids for the day? I am sure your husband is out on the road and that makes it hard as well.

The pain is hard to deal with no matter what type it is i can relate to that and i am sorry that you have to deal with that as well.

Keep your faith and trust i know that is easier to say than do but 2 years ago they gave me for dead and i am here today to write to you.

I am giving you a big hug do you feel it??? I hope so, your never alone you always have all of us here even though its not the same we all love and support you.

Your an amazing person and a very strong person. REMEMBER that crying is not a sign of weakness but a sign of STRENGTH!!!

Together we can get through this. Feel free to message me at anytime i get these on my phone as well.

Hang in there i would suggest someone to watch the kids for a few hours.
HUGS

Sweetie, I know all about raising a special needs child and there are some folks on here (DS) that are also my friends on Facebook and they know the struggles I'm having with my 11 yr old grandson.

He has Aspergers, OCD (severe), RAD, a conduct disorder, ADHD, severe anxiety, learning disabled, and has a genetic condition.

There are days I want to pull my hair out. He picks up on all my emotions, which makes his worse.

I'[m here if you want to chat or you can reach me on FB. I'm Laurie McAvoy Kombert there.

HUGssssssssssss

I'm always on here so you can message me to.

Thank you all I love each of you and know that you are here for me. Its just been hard for about a week now Gage (my son) has been on some sort of rollercoaster ride of emotions which is taxing me and stretching me really thin. Then I'm worried about the stress test results being abnormal and meeting the cardiologist on Monday. My blood sugar numbers are out of control with this flu I picked up and am slowly getting over. Add to that my arthritis is picked up. Then a couple days ago my husband started teaming with his step dad and I have been having less and less communication with my man. My inlaws hate me to no end and have tried all our marriage to end things between us. I didn't start worrying until last night when our conversation lasted a whole ten minutes and now today we haven't talked at all. He's not answering his phone and of course good old step dad isn't answering either. I'm not used to this. Its hard enough to be without him at the end of the day but the phone calls are what got me through and sort of "grounded" me at the end of each day battling with Gage. I just need him and he's not there. Thanks everyone for listening and being there.

Sorry that things are so tough right now. You do have support and that is this group. We are all here for you no matter when or what. I'm sending BIG HUGS to you!!!

Feeling a little better today. My little sister came over last night and I broke down crying. Needless to say she proceeded to call my husband and give him an earful. Gotta love that little sister of mine for looking out for me. Whatever she said to him made him think cause he called last night and apologized for his recent behavior. I talked to him and told him how I felt and told him that he may not completely understand it but that he is my rock and the one person who at the end of the day I can talk to about things that have happened that day and it grounds me. I know that he can't do a lot about things out on the road but that by talking to him he is helping me more than he knows and when I don't get that time to talk with him it just drains me more and more. He told me he was sorry and didn't realize that our evening conversations meant so much to me. I then pointed out to him that he becomes a very different person when he is around his family and becomes a person that just doesn't seem to care and think of his wife and son. I really hate my inlaws because while I encourage him to maintain contact with them even though we don't get along they continually try to keep us apart. I also told him last night that he needs to decided who is more important them or me who is it that he wants to live with and spend the rest of his life with because I am not going into this next stage of life we have both chosen with him if I am not going to be one of his top priorities. So we will see. Maybe I'm just tired of being second best when it comes to certain people and things.

I am glad to hear that you are feeling a little better today. I am also glad that you had the opportunity to talk to your husband and get some things of your chest. Sounds like you have a wonderful sister.

Sometimes our significant others jink don't think. Please keep us posted and remember we are always here for you.

We are hear to listen...It would be nice to have someone there to tell you that it is going to be alright. I, like you do not have a shoulder to cry on when I need it, never have but we will be here for you and I pray God will surround you with His presence so that you feel comforted. debby

You sound so strong! I know it may be hard for you to recognize it, but I see so much strength in your posts. HUGS!!!