Foster Care Support Group
Foster care is a system by which a certified, stand-in parent(s) cares for minor children or young peoples who have been removed from their birth parents or other custodial adults by state authority. Responsibility for the young person is assumed by the relevant governmental authority and a placement with another family found.
Junior or associates colleges are a great idea if she's not sure she wants to jump right into a 4-year program, but there are also other "Gap Year" programs out there if she isn't sure she wants to go straight from high school to collegeagain, something guidance counselors should have more information about.
As far as her not feeling like she needs to work for itI can so relate to that! My family was poor and my grades were ever so slightly above average with little effort on my part so I knew I would get all the financial aid I needed just by filling out a FAFSA, and I did: I actually did get some scholarships (I don't really know how) as well as grants and of course student loans. What I wish I could go back and tell my 17 year old self (not that I would have listened) is 1) don't go right to college, take a year (or two) and do something other than "school", and 2) if you don't NEED the student loansdon't take them. Yes, it is actually "good" debt but I'd rather have graduated with no debt. Just my opinion
Anyway, good luck, this is a very pivotal time in her life and I think it's great that you'll be able to support her through it!
Also most colleges will look at a students JUNIOR year grades since they will accept a student before they finish their Sr. year. So it there is ever a time for her to get her grades in line it's duriing this year of school.
I never used any of my free stuff from the foster system since I was adopted. But as I understand it FASFA (the governement free money/loan place) has grants for cases like this.
My older brother aged out and found the Army. It was good to him and they help with education when you get out.
JMO but it might be best if you can encourage her to a local college so she can continue to be a part of your family.
And from a former foster child, thanks for giving one of us a home and caring about us.
I'm a teacher, along with having grown up in a situation where education is important, but it would be good to get an I've-been-there's opinion. :)
I like to draw and am very good at. In 9th grade the art teacher at school realized my talent and gave me strong encouragement to do something with my creativity. But then I found myself only doing well in art and the rest of my grades were in the'c' and 'd' range. (to this day I still hate math)
But when I moved in with the lady who would be my adopted mom things kind of changed as far as how I had to look at school. She believed in my abiltiy to do better and insisted on it. She followed up on my homework EVERY DAY. She talked with my teachers all the time and kept giving me the kicks in the butt to do better. I was told this is great work and good progress BUT...you can get a little better.
As I look back I realize my mom was talking to that art teacher about me. Between the two of them they gave me a confindence I didn't have before. Ya see NO ONE before gave a crap if I got an 'A' or an 'F'. I guess they just got me to believe in myself and to do my best. My last semester of high school I was on the honor roll and I currently have a 3.25 GPA in college.
Maybe just showing her you believe in her abiltiy to improve her school. Remember up to this point in her life she probably hasn't had anyone really care how her grades were.
My suggestion is for you to get very involved with her school work. Maybe ask some of her teachers their ideas on how to make her a better student. Is there one thing she in really really good at?
Just my thoughts. I wish both of you well.
If she doesn't go to school let her know some how you don't approve. Maybe no boyfriend for a week or two or no computer?