Fitness Goals Support Group
This community is dedicated to group support around achieving fitness goals, whatever they may be, through personal training, athletic activites, or other strenuous activity. Whether you are trying to get fit to treat a health problem, boost your mood, relieve stress, or tone your body, this group is a great place to meet other like-minded people who have similar goals.
I feel overpowered by this really cute fit guy at my coffeeshop. He's always flirting with me, teasing me, etc. but I feel drug down the rest of the day after seeing him. I feel like I can't get him off my mind and I feel down because I have 50 lbs. left to lose and I feel like a fool in front of him. I feel like I can't do my daily run and go to the coffeeshop because he'll make fun of me or something. I just feel overpowered by guys in general. They never ask me out just flirt with me. it makes me feel broken hearted. But I decided the best thing for a broken heart was exercise. I am starting couch to 5K next week. Pray for me if you believe in God, cheer for me if you don't that I will be able to do it, stay injury free and do my 5K on September 29.
Hope you all have a great day,
Suzi
Hope you all have a great day,
Suzi
If my wife were here, she would give you some really good advice. Today, you'll have to settle for 2nd best..lol
Keep a couple of things in mind. First off, all people are self conscious to some degree. The fact that this gentleman is keeps coming around suggests there's some interest, don't you agree, or is the food that good? Perhaps he would like to ask you but has a shy side and is afraid of rejection.
The fact that guys flirt with you suggests on the outside you're appealing.
Maybe you need to be the aggressor. Suggest meeting in a different environment. Perhaps you know of an event that you both might be interested in.
Keep focus on your goals and maintain your faith.
as my wife always says.. nobody died from rejection. I'm living proof.
Good luck and God Bless
just focus on being the BEST YOU that you can be and also focus on your goals.
Love will find you, you wont have to go looking for it.
besides doesnt matter if you have 50 pounds to loose, you just take it one day at atime and am sure you are beautiful.
You will be amazed how much your confidence and self esteem will grow as you take all those little steps to being at a weight that makes you feel good and is healthy.
I assure you that everything else including love, will happen as you become happy with who you are..:).
Good luck,
Kenji
On the other topic....please don't let yourself feel overpowered by anyone. I have a friend who wears dark eyeliner when she feels intimidated. This is hard to explain but I find that when she wears that eyeliner in a certain way I start watching what I say around her because it makes her look tough. As someone affected by violence I would like to add that feeling overpowered is something that needs to be dealt with.