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Morning everyone. It's raining this morning and supposed to hit 73 this afternoon. I'm still so tired, this week kicked my ass. I can sleep in tomorrow and I can't wait. Yesterday I finished painting my door and today I have to hang it. I also finished the first portait, but may still make some adjustments. I ended up texting my dad telling him not to come up and rake the wood chips in the yard (I've already told him but he still went up Thursday, although he didn't go inside). No joke, he texted back ok then called an hour later saying he might go up. I told him they were coming to pump the septic tank at some point so he may end up turning right back around since the tree fell right between the road and the tank, and that I was going to do yard work this weekend anyway. After convincing him that there really is no way he wouldn't be in the way of the septic people, he agreed not to come. I wanted to just scream, "why the hell can't you just respect what I ask you to do?" Especially if I'm asking him not to make a trip somewhere. Anyway, I need to get ready for the grocery store and gym. Happy weekend everyone, and here's another random tangent:
I read yesterday that a little boy needs a bone marrow transplant and specifically needs a donor who is half Vietnamese and half Caucasian. After a little research, I learned that your likelihood of finding a compatible match ranges from 19% to 80% depending on your ethnicity. This is because they need to match HLA types, which stands for human leukocyte antigen. These allow the immune system to differentiate cells in your body from invading organisms or cells. The HLA is a big component in organ transplant rejection, since that's how your body would recognize that a transplanted organ came from somewhere else. They can protect (or fail to, if certain infections are present) against cancer and viruses by bringing fragments of the antigen to the surface of cells so the white blood cells can attack them. Mutations in HLA may be linked to autoimmune diseases (which is why people who have autoimmune diseases are not able to donate bone marrow), and a study found a possible link between HLA and perception of body odor-meaning it may affect mate selection in an unconscious way. The HLA complex is made up of a lot of different genes, which are inherited-which is where ethnicity comes into play. Like other genes that affect how you look or what disease you might be prone to, people of different ethnicities tend to have different HLA types. Each person also has several different types that need to be matched close to perfectly for a transplant (it makes finding a match difficult, but generally helps the immune system better identify foreign cells/antigens better than having one type). This is also why a sibling is your best likelihood for a match-they have the exact same parents and are more likely to have the same HLA types. So if siblings aren't a match they usually test family members, who are more likely than the general public to be a match. If nothing comes up from that, doctors enter your info into a database like Be the Match, which can match donors and patients all over the world but obviously your chances aren't as good. According to their website, the likelihood of finding a match is as follows: For Caucasian people: 77%, for American Indian/Alaska Native people: 57%, for Hispanic/Latino people: 46 %, for Asian or Pacific Islander people: 41%, for African American or Black people: 23%. Mixed race people probably have the toughest time finding a match because they have a set of specific HLA types from people of 2 ethnicities, making for a less common combination.
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I'm alive, I'm sleeping like a rock, and for some reason I wanted cherry juice so that seems to be helping. (??? Weirdo that I am.)***Infamous therapies over history:1. The Attic. The madwoman in the attic is a motif in literature going waaaaaay back: the nutty female relative is locked in the attic. (See: Jane Eyre by Charlotte Bronte for a grotesquely racist version of it, and Charlotte Perkins...
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Welcome to the Perseid meteor showers, the "biggies" usually every year. (The Leonids beat 'em one year IMHO).AND today much of the northern hemisphere will see 5 to 99% solar eclipse. How cool is that? Your best bet is to be in the UK or norhtern Spain, where totality is excellent before sundown. Me, I'll get a super duper tiny itty bitty slice of it, so little that it won't be noticeable. New...

had a medical doctor admit that in our place hed call a lawyer about the delay in arm surgery
but hubby is all no no no too much extra stress (!) so
and I can't fight alone so fuck it, pardon my English.
my right thumb hurts, whic his "good" news (means the nerve is working)
blessed weekend, all:-)
I miss warm and grass outside, snow is still here we got 2 days ago, and looks disgusting to me LOL Woke up to a major IBS flare, it hadent been as bad as usualy with the gout meds but today is already making up for it, ugh! I am very painful today and feel chilled bad since yesterday. hate when that happens lately i been hot from the depo shots but now im back to cold :( Cold makes me ache worse. My body feels like its in total rebel mode today. Just miserable :(
Leo, sorry about the pain, but happy about it also if that makes sense. :)
Angela, sorry you're having a flare with the gout and everything else! You deserve a break.
It's wet and rainy in this part of Texas this morning. I'm not certain how long we'll have internet and TV because we are on satellite for everything. DH is emptying the dishwasher so I can load it (again). I'll just do some futzing around the house again today. Nothing big planned.
Hope everyone has a good day!
Miki, wow you got so much going on... yay for sleeping in tomorrow. I hate it when family won't respect your wishes. That's not cool of him. Thanks for the HLA info... I hope that kid finds a match. I'm a "hapa" (half and half) like him so I know how rare we are.
It feels like I wrenched my shoulder driving yesterday.... and the same arm hurts like the lab lady injured it. I have small veins, the inexperienced ones always end up digging around and bruising me. We've had a storm blowing around with heavy rain since Thursday. But you go downtown and it's sunny. (facepalm)
My paper is done and I have to study for this weekend's test. But we have to draw up a letter to a bank explaining the short sale (4 yrs ago) for the meeting with them later. We're also supposed to go back up to the property late afternoon to show another contractor for a second opinion (since the other guy won't submit any plans due to the sticky water situation). So, once again, I have another run around crazy day like a chicken with its head cut off.
Leo, I would call the lawyer anyway. The sooner you see him the sooner you may get surgery. I don't understand why your hubby can't just get it through his head. Doesn't he want you better?
Angela, I can't believe people got snow, you'd think it'd be warming up. Sorry you have a big IBS flare.... that is the worst. I hope you feel better soon.
Pained, yay for hubby emptying the dish washer. We don't have one, a dish rack instead, but it takes pulling teeth to get my husband to put dishes away. I wish I could join you in putzing around the house, that sounds lovely.... sigh.
Pained, supportive hugs1
Angela, hugs!
I just wish it was gonna be simpler. But hey, hello thumb! that's something!
YAY Leo! I know that when the nerves wake up from a trauma they really hurt but it woke up! I had Ulnar surgery and when the nerve woke up it was hell to pay but I was so glad. It will start to calm over the next week hang in there.
Angela gout sucks and the med for it sucks so I guess you are just in a sucky way right now. I hope it calms down soon and you can get some rest.
Painedone I hope you enjoy a quiet day at home. Maybe find a good movie and make some popcorn.
Blue I don't know why this process for getting a home built couldn't be easier. You will be exhausted and half crazy by the time they start the build. I find that if I have to do very much driving I feel like everything from my shoulder blade to my fingertip feels broken. I learned to hold the bottom of the steering wheel to help but even that can cause a flair. I hope yours calms down quickly. Good luck on your test.
I am still having trouble with my shoulder/arm. I couldn't type yesterday without it sending sharp pain down to my fingers. We were supposed to go to the movies today but I think we may stay in. It is supposed to rain all day and it is cold. I will sit and stitch on a quilt top I have half done. I still do it by hand because that is the way my grandma taught me. She called them Heritage quilts.
I hope everyone has the best weekend possible. Hugs
Survived the fish fry. Mom arrived announcing that she has cable tv problems. She needed new boxes and instead of scheduling a tech to install them, she just ordered them. My brother did the intall. Then, rather than taking the old cable boxes back Mom threw them out. Her friends told her it was ok. Can't imagine what that I going to cost. Anyway, she wanted me to call the cable company at the fish fry because she has picture issues. Not gonna happen. I'm supposed to be there to relax and we have bag pipers. And, I was already overtired. So, I had to call when I got home. The tech gave me a simple fix over the phone. Mom wouldn't listen to me so I finally had have a tech call her directly. Two TVs are still not working properly so I had to call the cable company again today to get scheduled for a service call. If she had scheduled a tech in the first place.....I was just done last night after being on hold for 45 minutes and having to play telephone bingo to talk to a human.
Quiet day here otherwise. My partner put new struts on the back of his vehicle. The dishwasher is acting up again. Going to call for service this time. Getting ready to have dinner and watch a movie. Shout out to Bear! Waves at everyone!
This week felt like a hurricane... I'm so pooped, I could sleep for a week. I don't know if I'll get up for church tomorrow, we'll see.
Leo, I'm glad you are feeling pain. I hope all of my nerve fibers grow back after my surgery. Prayers for continual strength, and I hope you get a lawyer. Screw what hubby says!
Angela, yay the pain is getting better.
Blue, you are a machine, but I know you are breaking down, you desperately need a break.
Fantod, your mother stresses you out as much as mine does. It gets old. I know my mother has helped me lots, but I just want to hide anymore.
Autumn, sorry you have lots of rain and pain. Hang in there, maybe a movie today? Hugs
Sorry I need to hurry, can't get to everyone. Church, laundry, dishes, Kohl's, showers, school stuff ready, and this doesn't even touch the stuff I'm trying to prep before surgery. I realized next weekend is Easter and I have to dye eggs and do fun Easter stuff (this really messes up my plan of food prep). I honestly dread next weekend more now.
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Fantod, I hope your mom's cable gets sorted out.
Angela, vacuuming can wait, just take care of you for today. Trust me I know the the feeling... our house is a mess too but I don't have the time or energy to clean right now. It'll just have to be messy for now.
Twins take a break already! You can't do surgery run down and exhausted. You need to take care of you and the house will be there when your hubby decides to do it. Try enjoying the girls and finding some peace and let him deal. Hugs of support.
Blue it seems that the meetings for the house never end. It is no wonder you are burnt out. I hope the donuts were good and you don't have tummy trouble from them. I hope you did good on the test. Now take a deep breath and say "It is Sunday and I will rest". Hugs and prayers for the coming week,
I am meeting my daughter for lunch today. I want to get as many times in as I can before I go down again. It hurt to have to cancel with her so many times this winter. I won't be doing any stitching for a couple days because my elbow feels broken. That is RA in a rage and I am used to it but I still don't like that it limits me. Then the fibro is flaring in it so no move the elbow. My partner is off all week on a much needed vacay and it looks like she may sleep through it. We saw the movie 5 feet apart yesterday and I loved it. We always get the seats that recline so it is more comfortable.
Hi to all who follow and I hope you have a good day. Leo be good.
Twin - Yep - Mom drives me nuts. She doesn't consider the impact whatever she is doing or has done on anyone. We just have to fix it - immediately or she has a fit. The fish fry is an outing for me to see friends who join us and relax. God knows, I don't get to do much of anything social anymore. I don't want to sit in the car and make phone calls to the cable company during that time. I did call them today to see if they had a cancellation. They can now come tomorrow instead of Wednesday. I hope that suits Her Majesty...
I'm achy today from the weather. Its raining, cool and generally ugly out. My partner is out picking up some groceries. I'm working on laundry and hoping that my project loads sometime soon...
Shout out to Bear! Waves at everyone! Group hug!