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gosh where do i begin...
this week has been drama after drama...
this has been a week of hell...
everything that means much to me and is supposed to be a good thing in my life seems to be under attack!
Ricky (the house mate) that some of you know about, was attacking my fibromyalgia supprt group yesterday during a household meeting. saying that the group is helping me, it's just a support group. my reaction is to kick him out cuz of all the drama he has already caused this passed week about 9/11. so during the meeting yesterday, he exploded and said that he's moving out, which is fine by me. but then Matthew (my bf) convinces him that we should give it a rial period from now till i leave to PA on the 31st (for a friends wedding). that me and Ricky should spend 1 hr together trying to work it out, 1 hr for a total of 5 days. and if it doesn't work then to have him move out.
then yesterday as i am planning the trip details with my buddy over the phone... suddenly i get a crazy call from my mom about our friend Maria's son. he doesn't want Matthew to stay with at Maria's house and is wanting to do a background check on him! Matthew goes ballistic and the whole way home from down town i get yelled and screamed at! i told him that i can't take anymore and that he should chill!
then he tells me that he is NOT going to PA with me, and i already bought the ticket. but most of all i don't want to go alone.
i cried the whole way home, cuz i was already in so much pain.
at home my stomach was turning in knots as he and MAria's son verbally fought on the phone about it. it wasn't a big deal cuz my buddy already invitd us to stay at His house instead. but that didn't calm my bf down.
my stomach was hurting so bad i went up stairs and curled up into a ball. i took 2000 mg of tums and it still hurt. it was so bad that every time i stood up i thought i was going to pass out or throw up. then the pain all over my body was so bad i couldn't sleep no matter what i took.
please pray for me and pray for some peace here...
sorry for the long rant. thanks for reading this whole thing. thanks for being there...
this week has been drama after drama...
this has been a week of hell...
everything that means much to me and is supposed to be a good thing in my life seems to be under attack!
Ricky (the house mate) that some of you know about, was attacking my fibromyalgia supprt group yesterday during a household meeting. saying that the group is helping me, it's just a support group. my reaction is to kick him out cuz of all the drama he has already caused this passed week about 9/11. so during the meeting yesterday, he exploded and said that he's moving out, which is fine by me. but then Matthew (my bf) convinces him that we should give it a rial period from now till i leave to PA on the 31st (for a friends wedding). that me and Ricky should spend 1 hr together trying to work it out, 1 hr for a total of 5 days. and if it doesn't work then to have him move out.
then yesterday as i am planning the trip details with my buddy over the phone... suddenly i get a crazy call from my mom about our friend Maria's son. he doesn't want Matthew to stay with at Maria's house and is wanting to do a background check on him! Matthew goes ballistic and the whole way home from down town i get yelled and screamed at! i told him that i can't take anymore and that he should chill!
then he tells me that he is NOT going to PA with me, and i already bought the ticket. but most of all i don't want to go alone.
i cried the whole way home, cuz i was already in so much pain.
at home my stomach was turning in knots as he and MAria's son verbally fought on the phone about it. it wasn't a big deal cuz my buddy already invitd us to stay at His house instead. but that didn't calm my bf down.
my stomach was hurting so bad i went up stairs and curled up into a ball. i took 2000 mg of tums and it still hurt. it was so bad that every time i stood up i thought i was going to pass out or throw up. then the pain all over my body was so bad i couldn't sleep no matter what i took.
please pray for me and pray for some peace here...
sorry for the long rant. thanks for reading this whole thing. thanks for being there...
Gosh, so sorry you are going through all that turmoil. When we get stressed the pain sure does like to flare up even more. Awful.
You are in my prayers for peace and comfort and resolution to the problems.
You are not alone; I have found that to be true. People here on this site are so understanding and loving.
Gentle Hugs,
Robin
1st your boyfriend should be supporting you in getting that guy to leave.
2nd I don't see why your boyfriend should be so upset if a family friend wants to do a background check on him. It sounds like the family friend is looking out for you and his own family. If he is so upset it would make me question what is it he is hiding.
With the way people are today I would think nothing about running a background check on someone I was interested in and I would have no problem with someone running a background check on me. The only reason I can think of to be upset is if you have something to hide. Also the issue of your safety should me more important that the issue of trust.
Hope things work out.
Hugs
Mary, my bf and i have been together for over 2.5 yrs. the only thing on his back ground might be a dui, but he said that got removed. and what made him mad was that my mom gave them his information with out his consent, and that Maria's son was going to run a check with out my bf's consent.
he said that Maria's son should have spoken to him on the phone 1st not just go running off and doing checks on him. and the check was for him to be able to stay in Maria's house. i can understand being protective of his family but at least get consent for doing that. that's some serious violation of privacy.
thanks for the prayers everyone! you are so awesome!
Hope it gets resolved and you can relax and enjoy the wedding.
Hugs
hugs
Fibro is enough to deal with... hugs to you for going through all this!
Carrie
Marcia
And this sort of stress attacks us. And I don't know why....but it sure hurts.
I saw screw them....come and stay here (although it's MN) and leave them all home. The only stress here is worrying about getting the PB & J off your butt when the kiddos do a drive by smearing. I haven't caught them yet, but I SWEAR they run their cars though this stuff!!!
I do hope it gets better soon for you so you can enjoy all of this. And that roommate has GOTTA go!! I was reading what you posted in your journal and he's either gotta live by some etiquette rules in life or he's gonna end up very lonely.
My prayers are with you Sweetie.
HUGS!!
wonderbaby, i would love to come visit, but i'm not really a kids kind of person. LOL about the drive by pb & j !! i love that stuff but i wouldn't paint the house in it...lol
...sorry