Fibromyalgia Support Group
You're not alone in your pain. Fibromyalgia is a condition that can be difficult to diagnose and manage. If you're trying to cope with pain throughout your body, sleep problems, general fatigue, or other common fibromyalgia symptoms, you're in the right place. The community is here for you to talk about therapies and share your challenges.
Not all Rhuemy's are the same so if you don't have a good experience seek out a new one.
Standard Rhuemy appt should order blood tests to rule out other diseases like Lupus, Arthritis, polymyalgia, Vit D deficiency, etc. They should do the tender point test and ask you questions about sleep, fatigue. Also, mention if you are having bowel issues.
As with any disease they may discuss treatment options.
Sorry you're having a rough time, hopefully this will give you some answers.
I am in the uk and being treated on the NHS so not sure I get to have a second opinion unless I pay privately which I can't afford so let's hope they do a good job first time round. The good news is my gp is very understanding and I have no concerns about going back to him if I'm not satisfied with the outcome.
http://chronicfatigue.about.com/b/2010/04/03/doctors-lists-preparing-for-an-appointment-with-fibromyalgia-chronic-fatigue-syndrome.htm
i also have the same fear. What if i dont get the diagnosis?? what will i do then?? i think you are right that we would be hard pushed to get a second referral to another rheumatologist "/
I sometimes doubt myself, asking does it really hurt that much? Am I really not able to do this simple task or am I just not trying hard enough? In order for other people to believe me they need to understand exactly how it feels. I need to accept exactly how it feels.
Really struggling with all this, just want to be out of pain and living life normally :/