Aw, Cajun, anyone that knows you, knows that you would never be unwelcoming to anyone.

For those that do not know Cajun, she is one of the nicest persons here and is always willing to share her support and knowledge, and I haven't even known her that long and know this :)

I support the idea of the "sub site" for new people to go to and read up on. I wish that had been here when I first joined. It's nice to read everyone's story and feel as though one has a reference point when joining a group. It may not be for everyone, but it's nice for those that want it, and it saves people from having to repeat their story again and again. I know that sometimes I am busy and would like to share my story with someone that is new, but then a whole bunch of new people show up at one time, and there simply isn't enough time to respond personally like that to everyone. So in that respect, it is a win-win situation to have this sub-site, IMHO :)

I think it's a splendid idea. With the basic stuff in one place, the Newbies can easily find it.

So much gets washed away in the discussion boards. We are a chatty group with much to discuss.

Funny how F pain/fog can alter one's perspective. The thought of you trying to make the newbies unwelcome never occurred to me, but I've not had so much pain lately.

I'm a newbie here and I don't understand why in the world you are apologizing. Starting the new "sub site" was a fabulous idea and it was just what I needed. Maybe someone else didn't understand what you were doing but I don't think an apology was warranted. You are obviously a very caring person who would never do anything to hurt someone else. I'm new to this site and I like and appreciate you already!

Also a newbie, and I'm LOVING the newbie subgroup, because I'm literally spinning trying to figure out what's good info and what isn't... some people might have gotten upset and complained, but we need to all remember that we only have so much energy in a day and we can't be wasting it on negativity. The assumption should always be made that everyone here is trying to help, that's the spirit of DS... you come here to get help and to offer back what you can to others. :)

Aww Cajun! I doubt you have to worry unless someone specifically said something to you and even then...you are just trying to help! I love the idea of the group!

My Cajun Belle,

If anyone said anything to you about starting the sub-group, then that person is not only completely wrong, she is a fool.

Your idea is a great idea. It is far easier to go to one page, dedicated specifically to stories of the hows, whats, and what is working now, than to weed through all of the subjects that we place on the main board everyday.

Shame on anyone who said anything derogatory about a sub-group idea that is meant to do nothing but help

My dear Cajun:

I think it's a wonderfully thoughtful idea to put such a wealth of information in one, easy-to-find/navigate spot. It's a great place to go and research to one's little heart's content.

Newbies can go and peruse at their pace and it's especially wonderful for the lurkers out there, too shy or those that just don't want to step out and ask for help. For those, answers and experience and tips and been-there-done-that information is within their grasp.

or, if they want, they can just come over to the main board and ask. The option is theirs but this GIVES them an option and a different way to get to know their own bodies and what might be going on.

((((hugs)))) You'se done good, lady! ;)

Hi Cajun, just another newbie here...new ideas are awesome. And yours is AWESOMER as my grandson would say. I am going on three days at DS now and have spent much of my time reading posts to first realize that I am the new 'norm' and second I am not alone and most we are all in this together. This is one of the best feelings I have had in years!!! For some, it must be very hard to stay positive with such aweful pain and sorrows to deal with and my prayers, ears/eyes, and shoulders are here for them too. How awesome is it that I can go to one place and find everyone's beginning so that, if nothing else, I feel less alone or I can take some info to my doctors and say listen to this... Thank you for your efforts and God Bless...it was nice meeting your aquaintance. Lyndy

if anyone said anything mean to you point me toward em, i'll put em straight for ya, you are one of the sweetest people on this site, you and D, and others who i cannot remember right now, made me feel so welcome when i first joined,
i think your sub group is a great idea. i haven't posted yet, but have every intention of doing so if i can get past the fatigue i am fighting now

Thanks Asch, How about this? You hold em and I'll smack em LOL

Seriously though, I think that someone just got a wrong impression about the group here and now must realize that we are all together and all welcoming to everyone, all the time.

being new here myself, and browsing through all the info is interesting, it gives a feeling of connecting with someone who is going through similiar experiences themselves... i enjoy this group and reading through the posts...at the same time because i have been recently diagnosed the new group would also be a breath of fresh air.... itd be ok to be in both would it not???.
I dont think anyone could have enough info or support and when a person is new to the diagnosis or groups, I can see where oth would be very beneficial....so i just wanted to send out a thank you to you for neing that thoughtful,,,,,,,,, KD

cajun, the site is awesome. Educates all of us how we are all different yet the same.

Excellent idea, especially for anyone new.

Sweetie, you don't owe anyone an apology. The new group is a great idea and there is always room for more information and support. I've been around a while and it's interesting for me to read about how it all started for people I've been talking to for almost 2 years. You did a good thing. Thank you.

Cajun, An exellent idea, I just now read this post and decided to check out the new group as I am new to Fibro. Joined it on the spot. The more information the better!

Good job!

I think it is kind of you,and a great idea..well done you!....