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The problem was that someone stole the plates from my mailbox and it took another year to get through the DMV paperwork to get another set of plates. I had to have my doctor fill out yet another form.
You can make it easy on your doctor to fill out the form by going to the DMV website and typing in all your vehicle and private info into the form and then printing it and taking it to the doctor.
Be forewarned that everyone will give you the evil eye if you are not on a stretcher when you get out of your car at the store. You just have to learn to get past that.
Someone here even showed a website that people report us on because they can't see our invisible illness :(
http://www.handicappedfraud.org/
Additionally, thanks for for good advice about going to the DMV website before approaching my doctor about a handicapped parking sticker. I will ask my doctor at my next appointment.
Gentle Hugs and Prayers :)
I use it at school and the other day I had to walk back to my car for something after I was 1/2 way to the class. That extra walk did me in. I got to class so wiped out and fretful! Yeah, it might be that we CAN walk the distance but when we have to accomplish something when we get there, that's the rub!
My doctor was great about giving me one, but I hate the comments I get from people about why I have it because they don't think I look sick.
My usual comment to that is "you don't look ignorant or inconsiderate either, so I guess looks can be deceiving!" :)
I filled in everything that I could, including my diagnosis of fibromyalgia, and all my doctor had to do was sign it. He appreciated my saving him the time when I knew the info as well as him :)
I know not all doctors are supportive but mine was - and I have mine for the very same reasons - sometimes walking is an issue - sometimes not.
For whoever mentioned handicappedfraud.org, I actually wrote them a long email saying maybe they needed to do some consumer education and let people know that there are a LOT of disabilities that are invisible. You don't see a bad heart, or lung disease, or HIV, or any of a number of things that could give you trouble walking, either physically or because of energy depletion. I don't expect they cared, but I had to try.
I told them on a very cold day, they might even see me SPRINT from my car to the store, because extreme cold really HURTS me! It's like I'm being skinned alive, and it takes forever for that feeling to go away, so I get in out of the cold as quickly as I can, even if it costs me later.
Hope your doc is supportive - FYI I was able to get the paperwork off the DMV website - you might want to check where you are and see if you can save a trip.