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On Monday my favorite uncle[84]fell while shopping for groceries and broke his hip and had to have a replacement on Wednesday.He had only been to the dr 1 other time in his life because of a hernia rupture and was in real good health.The dr at the ER in the town where we live told me that his heart and everything seemed like that of a 50 year old before they transfered him to a larger hospital in the next town.He was fine even when they took him into surgery but when he came out he had pnemonia and was placed in ICU.At 2:30 Thursday morning I got a call from the ICU nurse asking me if we wanted hin resusitated{sp?}if he needed it.The nurse told me that he was deteriating fast and that we needed to come there.By the time that we arrived he was non responsive and his organs were shutting down.Yesterday the dr ask us if we wanted them to do anything to keep him alive or just keep him comfortable and let him go.WE chose to let him die with as much dignity as possiblE.My mother and I stayed with him all day and at 9:00 last night the ANGELS came for him and took him home.
Now my heart is broken and I am in so much pain both physical and mentally that it is almost unbearable.I knew that I would suffer for it but I could not leave him,I had to be there to try and make his transition as easy as possible and to make sure he knew what he ment to me,to all of us.He was the best uncle any one could ask for!He never had any children of his own but he had us and always treated like we were his.He always made sure we all had what we needed and most of what we wanted.I even took my driving test in his car.If he had a dollar in his pocket and he thought we needed it he would give to us.
GOODBYE UNCLE ALBERT,I LOVE YOU,REST IN PEACE,MY DARLING!!!
Now my heart is broken and I am in so much pain both physical and mentally that it is almost unbearable.I knew that I would suffer for it but I could not leave him,I had to be there to try and make his transition as easy as possible and to make sure he knew what he ment to me,to all of us.He was the best uncle any one could ask for!He never had any children of his own but he had us and always treated like we were his.He always made sure we all had what we needed and most of what we wanted.I even took my driving test in his car.If he had a dollar in his pocket and he thought we needed it he would give to us.
GOODBYE UNCLE ALBERT,I LOVE YOU,REST IN PEACE,MY DARLING!!!
Hugs,
Sherry
this just makes me even scarrier to have the surgery i need so afraid i will die! should i just endure the pain or risk dealth!
again so sory for your grief
healing prayers & angels to watch & guide you & your family!
oxo
paula
Funny how there is always one person when something like this happens who causes problems.His stepdaughter did absolutely nothing for him during all this,she didn't even come see him while he was in the hospital.She didn't help with trying to get anything together before we went down to make the funeral arrangements but she came to the funeral home while we were making the arrangements and tried to just take over after MOM and I had already gotten it all together.I had it all wrote down and just handed it over to the dirrector.She is mad at me because when he first fell I promised him that I would go pick his car up from the store and that I wouldn't let anyone have it but my DAD.She called the ER here before they transfered him and demanded that I give her the car and I refused.Now my DAD has the car and my aunt is staying with my parents where she wants to be and the stepdaughter is being a bitch about it.She is being mean to my Mom because she is getting gaurdianship over my aunt[her mind is comming and going now].We afraid that she[daughter]would be not atke care of her and be mean to her so we are taking steps to prevent it.My aunt keeps begging us not to make her go with her daughter.She even went so far as to go tell my sister in law[she works with her]that I was down at the funeral home making funeral arrangemants for my hubby who was real sick and I wasn't taking care of him because I wanted him to die so I could collect the 1.5 million dollar life insurance policy I have on him.My brother in law called my father in law and told him and was all upset[we don't see hubby's brother much because he's an alcoholic and violent when he drinks].My father in law told him it wasn't true.That my hubby is sick but that I take good care of him and that I don't even have any inssurance on him.Then he called us and told us what was being said.Now if something happens to my hubby his brother will think I had something to do with it.
She is being a real bitch and I am about fed up with her.
Thank you all for the support and all the prayers during my time of need.Sorry about my little rant but I just so mad at her.
Man there is always one in the family, I swear at every funeral. Bet she wasn't paying for the funeral either, yet was quite strong in giving her views.