Before venturing an opinon on that, could you please tell me why you want it toned down a little? Why it's a problem to you!?

It is obvious in some of the clothes I wear. I don't want to draw attention to that area for reasons I already struggle with, so I feel it limits what I can wear because of it.

I have that problem too but I have no idea how to tone it down... wish I could though... when you have a sister-in-law that's very blunt and states the obvious it can tend to get annoying...

Try putting bandaids over them. It won't keep them from "popping up", but it will keep them from showing.

Your right about drawing attention. Men will look, it don't matter if they are hard or not. I am very guilty of that but it is something that I just can't help. Marah has a good idea about the bandaids or maybe a padded bra.

Okay, Wilson, perhaps you have heard this before, my eyes are up here. lol. Good to hear an honest man.

Hmm well thanks for all the suggestions. It's annoying even some of my padded bras don't cover it. It is what it is I guess. Maybe I just need to get over it and wear what I want...

I know Marah, but certain parts of a woman is just like a magnet to men's eyes. Sorry but we just can't help it. Just wear what you want to GiveMeWings.

Mine are hard all the time as well. I think that mine is maybe because I breastfeed my 2 kids? I don't really know but I hate it to.

I have got erect nipples most of the time, and men do stare! I tell them its braile for f*** off!

I love it misty! haha

I know I've heard about something you can wear that is specifically geared towards that very issue!! I did a Google search and came up with the following page. Perhaps you can find something helpful at one of these sites!!
http://www.google.com/search?q=%22nipples%22%2B%22clothes%22%2B%22pasties%22&rls=com.microsoft:en-us:IE-SearchBox&ie=UTF-8&oe=UTF-8&sourceid=ie7
Good luck!!!!

That's great misty! Absolutely genius! lol

Breastfeeding can cause nipple erections, LOL, what a silly thing to call it. It happens because the nipples have been enlarged, somewhat roughened, and distended over a long period of time.

I can understand why you'd be embarrassed and if you all ready have problems with drawing attention to your breasts... I empathize :)

A padded bra, a really padded bra, would help, but it would also enhance your size. I might try that link Carla suggested or pick up a piece of memory foam. I know, it sounds weird, but you could then make bra pads that don't over emphasize and the memory foam will contour to your breast but not show through on the front.

That's what I did while I was breastfeeding.

amen mistykell, i was 44 dd and man did they stare. i lost weight , so i got smaller. They all stare and no matter what shape.