
Female Sexual Issues Support Group
Sexual dysfunction or sexual malfunction is difficulty during any stage of the sexual act (which includes desire, arousal, orgasm, and resolution) that prevents the individual or couple from enjoying sexual activity. Sexual dysfunction disorders are generally classified into four categories: sexual desire disorders, sexual arousal disorders, orgasm disorders, and sexual...
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Good luck!!!!
I can understand why you'd be embarrassed and if you all ready have problems with drawing attention to your breasts... I empathize :)
A padded bra, a really padded bra, would help, but it would also enhance your size. I might try that link Carla suggested or pick up a piece of memory foam. I know, it sounds weird, but you could then make bra pads that don't over emphasize and the memory foam will contour to your breast but not show through on the front.
That's what I did while I was breastfeeding.