Female Sexual Issues Support Group
Sexual dysfunction or sexual malfunction is difficulty during any stage of the sexual act (which includes desire, arousal, orgasm, and resolution) that prevents the individual or couple from enjoying sexual activity. Sexual dysfunction disorders are generally classified into four categories: sexual desire disorders, sexual arousal disorders, orgasm disorders, and sexual...
I am having trouble reaching orgasm. I am also on an antidepressant and have switched to cymbalta like 4 months ago but have had this problem since before that though. I have the desire and am very aroused but when it comes time to get close to orgasm I just cant do it. I have tried everything I can think of. I have looked up some things to try also and that did not even work either. I am kind of embarresed to go to the doctor about this. So if any of you ladies out there have any suggestions or anything please let me know ok. Thanks in advance. I am very sexually frustrated.
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Kidding about that last part.
The first part is easy as falling off a log. Seriously, a large percentage of women don't even climax from penetrative sex alone.
Electric models cost more but are good for several reasons:
-They are normally what people buy for their sore back, neck, and shoulders, so nobody has to know but you.
-They give a nice hum that will get you there every single time, unlike the horrible strange critters that take batteries.
-Hubbies are less intimidated by them because they don't look weird or kinky.
-They have different speeds so you are sure to find something that works. Experiment.
-STAY AWAY FROM THE WARMING FEATURE. It will most certainly be too hot for your privates.
If you are married don't assume you know your hubbie enough to know he won't be interested. Most men are usually more open to new sexy things than we are. I just said, sorry baby we need to mix it up a little to keep thing fresh in our old age. He looked way more curious than put off. We use it about 50% of the time. I normally lube him up, glide it up and down the underside until he come like the thunder, then use it on myself while he watches. After I come, he's ready for round two and we do it the traditional way. I'm usually still primed and orgasm easily during intercourse after using the vibe. Men are visual creatures, who like to see their women getting pleasure. I'm over fifty and don't have a perfect body, but he so does not care.
Remember the a woman's clit is more sensitive than a human eyeball, so always use lube. If you're older, use super slippery lube. I honestly can't stress this enough: Clean your vibe properly after each use. You don't have to be fanatical but clean it with the little wash they sell according to the instructions.