Family Issues Support Group
Family issues is a huge range that go from minor conflict to major misbehaviour and even abuse on the part of individual members of the family occur. Whether you feel you are in a dysfunctional family or you're dealing with a very specific issue, this is the place to talk about it and find others who might be going through the same thing.
I really dont know where to start about this. I have been going through so much right now with my family that I am going crazy. My anxiety is so high right now and i feel like i am walking on egg shells around some people i live with in the same house. I just want to leave and get myself and my kids away but I have nowhere to go and not enough money to get my own place. My father is going to give me the money so me and my kids can ,move out but we have nowhere to go and noone will rent to me in this area. If I even find a place to move to I am afaird I wont be able to afford it after the first month. I dont know what to do. I just cant take it anymore in this house and its taking a toll on me and my kids daily.
My youngest sister and her son moved here almost a year ago and was only going to be here a short time but its been almost a year now. She is the one that I feel that i walk on egg shells around. She doesnt know how to be a mother to her child who is 3 and she has anger problems herself. All she does is yell and cuss all day long and i mean all day long. I have anxiety, depression, bipolar 1, adhd. I also have a child that is on the spoecturm. she acts like her working at a job that she sits at almost all day long is hard work and she doesnt have to get up with her child in the morning. But i get up with my 3 kids everyday, get my middle child ready for school and on the bus daily, homeschool my oldest, all three of their appts each week, my appts weekly, cook dinner for everyone in the house (7), and half the time i have to take care of her child. But yet they act like what i do is nothing and they always want to say something about it and it is not right. I am tired of and i want to be somewhere where i am wanted and someone will say thank you here and there for what i do around there house. I dont feel wanted here and its my own mother and sister. They act like I dont belong in the family, they dont talk to me and leave me out of things and they go off and do things without me and dont even ask if i want to go anymore. I feel like the relationship I had with my mom that we was working on for the last few years is now gone and she is picking my youngest sister and her child over her othger children and grandchildren.
I just want to get away from here now but I have nowhere to go. I dont know what to do and i feel so lost and alone. I have a boyfriend and he has a place and i am trying to get him to let us coe there but he is giving me mixed signs and i dont nkow what he wants anymore. we have been together for over 2 years now. I need to get myself and my kids away from here now before its too late and something really bad happens other then just a yelling fight.
What to do when there is no assistance help in my area either? i hate my life right now anbd feel like a bad mom.
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Hey All...I hope that you have a lovely, peaceful beginning of your weekI have a bunch of chores that need doing but may put them off til tomorrow and just hang out with my landlord/roomie todayWhat about you?...Anything special going on?Have a great day and take good care of you!!..Xo
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Once again I've had a fever today. I'm not going to the hospital because that's a huge waste of time but I did schedule a dr appointment for Wednesday afternoon.
Your mom has raised her kids and it may be a lot for your parents to have their grown children with all of their kids back at home..... This is an awful lot for your folks to deal with
I would perhaps think able letting your children go out to school and look at getting some type of work.... Even part time if possible … If you're able to work?
If your sister is behaving like this around a three year old I would think about calling CPS..... This baby needs to be protected
Big hug while you work it out.....xo
Me and my kids moved out and are living with my boyfriend right now temporary till we see what is going to happen more. The long drive everyday to get my son to school right now is hard but I am making it work for him bc i dont want to pull him out of school this late into to school year.
We are just doing the best that we can right now and he has been great through it all right now. I love him to death and i couldnt get through this without him, thats forsure.