Family Issues Support Group
Family issues is a huge range that go from minor conflict to major misbehaviour and even abuse on the part of individual members of the family occur. Whether you feel you are in a dysfunctional family or you're dealing with a very specific issue, this is the place to talk about it and find others who might be going through the same thing.
You are over 21 now and I owe you nothing !!
If you need it I will put a roof over your head and food in your mouth and a safe place to get back on your feet. My money is mine ,why do you think I have lots ??? I still have debts from raising you and your siblings . Do you know how much it costs to raise a child ?? We gave you everything ,we took you on trips to expand your horizons, we paid for sports and other activites we thought would make you a well rounded human being. We put in lots of hours lots and lots on you .I chose to be a stay at home Mom because we thought that would be best for you.Weve now paid for weddings for some of you .
Now my money is mine .Ive had my first manicure and pedicure ever .I can buy shoes to match an outfit now instead of only having 2 pairs of shoes black and brown to go with everything for years !!!
Get a job keep it .Dont make big purchases till you know the job is gonna last .Work at McDonalds if you get laid off .Did we tell you life was gonna be easy? Oh maybe we did by spoiling you and giving everything.
Dont have kids till you are ready ,its a very hard job very very hard .
I raised you right you had a wonderful home If there was something you didnt like or you think we like your little brother better than you ,suck it up and grow up ,you are in charge of your own life. Im sure Ive heard you say .Im grown up now its none of your business what I do . Well lets keep it that way .You cant have it both ways .Get out of debt yourself and make your own life . I will always love you but Im done raising children.
Mom
If you need it I will put a roof over your head and food in your mouth and a safe place to get back on your feet. My money is mine ,why do you think I have lots ??? I still have debts from raising you and your siblings . Do you know how much it costs to raise a child ?? We gave you everything ,we took you on trips to expand your horizons, we paid for sports and other activites we thought would make you a well rounded human being. We put in lots of hours lots and lots on you .I chose to be a stay at home Mom because we thought that would be best for you.Weve now paid for weddings for some of you .
Now my money is mine .Ive had my first manicure and pedicure ever .I can buy shoes to match an outfit now instead of only having 2 pairs of shoes black and brown to go with everything for years !!!
Get a job keep it .Dont make big purchases till you know the job is gonna last .Work at McDonalds if you get laid off .Did we tell you life was gonna be easy? Oh maybe we did by spoiling you and giving everything.
Dont have kids till you are ready ,its a very hard job very very hard .
I raised you right you had a wonderful home If there was something you didnt like or you think we like your little brother better than you ,suck it up and grow up ,you are in charge of your own life. Im sure Ive heard you say .Im grown up now its none of your business what I do . Well lets keep it that way .You cant have it both ways .Get out of debt yourself and make your own life . I will always love you but Im done raising children.
Mom
Thank you for not using foul language. It was not cheaper or easier times when I had kids.Were you out loooking for a job today ?
You are an adult ,You are 24 years old . My DAUGHTER in law was 25 and had 3 kids my son was 26 they now own a house .They were adults at 23 24 25 . Quit crybabying and GROWUP .Cant you get it you are an adult ,im an adult I have no sympathy for you . Is you father going to give you allowance from his old age pension checks ???
ok enough of the complaining ladytiger maybe this will calm you down let me baby you for a minute,
no one on daily strength knows what you have to go through,
nobody could possibly know what your life is like but you,
nobody could ever imagine riding a bus 10 miles to work
nobody knows what itslike to live and not have their parents support them when they struggle.
nobody could possibly know what your life is like
you are so right on everything you have ever said how could we have ever doubted you!!!!
ok cough cough cough now tudor the turtle must come back to the present you spent how long typing all that stuff in your post put some of that energy into finding alternative ways to make money, get a damn paper route,bottom line this is a thread for family issues, you are codependant on your elderly parents, get over it, you dont have a family issue you have a ladytiger issue.