Family Issues Support Group
Family issues is a huge range that go from minor conflict to major misbehaviour and even abuse on the part of individual members of the family occur. Whether you feel you are in a dysfunctional family or you're dealing with a very specific issue, this is the place to talk about it and find others who might be going through the same thing.
I have been married to my wife for almost ten years now. We had quite a smooth start as we were dating up until at the early stage of our marriage. However, as time went by, it seems like she is losing interest in me. It seems like she is not happy with our marriage anymore. It feels like loving me is now a burden for her; I feel like I am already a burden to her. I tried all the tips I read online, most especially from that of an international marriage agency, but it seems like she’s about to give up on our marriage and I cannot change that in her. She has not said anything about it though but that is what I feel. What should I do?
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Which explains the mysterious fevers and my extra fatigue. I'm so glad I pushed for answers.
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Due to my increased paranoia, anxiety, and a panic attack over the weekend, my psychiatrist has put me back in a full dose of Zyprexa until further notice. Every time I think I'm getting ahead something happens and it's back to square one. I knew he was gonna do this but I can't help feeling disappointed. It is what it is.
This sounds so much like many other posts.
My wish to you, blueboldSD is peace. Maybe take a minute and just be at peace with yourself?
Hugs, Patti
I've never been married myself, so maybe I have no place to say anything one way or another, but is it a fact that she's not interested anymore? Did she say anything specific to indicate that she's feeling burdened? And if she is, are you certain that it's the marriage, or could it be something else in her life that needs a change? You say she hasn't said anything about ending the marriage. What makes you so certain she wants to?
You didn't say anything specific, so I'm just wondering if these are questions you have asked, or that you can answer.
I say communication is the most important thing in situations like this. Sit her down and admit, straight up, that you feel like she's very unhappy and that if she's having problems with the marriage, you'd like to work it out.
Don't give up. Your love, and hers, is worth fighting for.
There is a Healthy Relationships board that might be a good place to seek advise.... Big hug.....xo
https://www.dailystrength.org/group/healthy-relationships