By nature, DS is intrusive. How can someone post a general complaint about life, but not expect some questions back in order to give some sound advice?

Nobody's given directives; in fact, we've held back because we lack any substantial details.

That's like going to the doctors and saying, "I hurt," but not saying where, for how long,etc. I feel my questions were legit.

Hi
I am sorry about your situation. My dad used to drink a lot and it was scary.
I am new to DS and Family Issues. What is this group about and does there always tend to be fighting about what people say?.
I am kind of a hippy peacemaker so not wanting to get into any mess here.
I hope you keep posting. Anny

emilyam: I hope you feel better soon. Whatever is happening that stresses you out, I hope you find the comfort you need. Some of use would like to know your story, but you feel free to state what you feel you need to.

Meanwhile, I hope you feel better soon. You are not alone.

I grew up afraid of my father also, with good reason! My mother too, for that matter, but as i digress...

Post dust up, what remains are two choices. Stay scared and dependent on your abuser(s), or choose to live fearlessly for yourself, on your own.

You're apparently literate, and have access to computer, and there are some very good statements of advice posted to aid you.

Freedom isn't free, it's priceless! This is truth. :)

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