Family Issues Support Group
Family issues is a huge range that go from minor conflict to major misbehaviour and even abuse on the part of individual members of the family occur. Whether you feel you are in a dysfunctional family or you're dealing with a very specific issue, this is the place to talk about it and find others who might be going through the same thing.
I feel very lost in my life and relationship right now. Me and my wife have been married for 15 years and together for 20. I've failed as a husband for most of that 15 year period. Honestly I've failed for the majority of my life. I no longer know who I am. I don't know my place in this world. While I'm trying to change I just seem to keep failing. I can't provide the simplest of things that my wife needs to feel safe in our relationship. I feel like a complete loser. A complete failure. Like my family would be much better off with out me. If I weren't around they could grow and be happy and safe. And not have the constant worry of me screwing something up. Which is inevitable. It's what I do. It's what I've always done.
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Hey All...I hope that you have a lovely, peaceful beginning of your weekI have a bunch of chores that need doing but may put them off til tomorrow and just hang out with my landlord/roomie todayWhat about you?...Anything special going on?Have a great day and take good care of you!!..Xo
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Once again I've had a fever today. I'm not going to the hospital because that's a huge waste of time but I did schedule a dr appointment for Wednesday afternoon.
You write like you're in a depression??.... Do you think that you are?
If you've made some mistakes or wrong decisions that doesn't mean that you're a loser or that your family would be better off without you by any means.... Perhaps you need to work at making some healthy changes
Big hug......x
Seems that you are throwing yourself away as worthless. Why? Please don't consider things that way. We all live impulsively. And you have friendship here. However to fairly help you it is first important to sort through your problems without vandalizing your character. See it this way. You started off your news by criticizing & trimming away at your character. So rather than do this, let others read over the notes of what all started the most recent challenges and then ideas can be compared without insulting you. More targeted information is necessary. What I can tell is that you need to work things out with your wife. Only a short outline of the issues bothering you will help readers or responders to tie your ideas together for the sake of help or useful support.
I hope for you calm & quiet thoughts today.