So my relationship with my mother has gone down the drain. Ever since I moved back to my mother's house after college things have been crazy. As of now my boyfriend and I lives with my mother, little sister, and little brother. we sleep in the living room on old dirty couch pillows that I cover with sheets. I can never get time alone with my boyfriend because my mother always wants to talk with him. I work and go to school so when I'm not home and he is she would talk to him about how I am selfish and stubborn. she tells him negative things about me and also asks him for money which he is currently not working so basically if he gives her money it's my money I worked. she once asked him money for the light bill and didn't even address my younger siblings for money. it's already hard for me because I am responsible to pay all our bills and I only make money to do so leading me with no money to help pay house bills. now don't get me wrong my boyfriend is a private chef and he gets to work sometimes and is able to bring money for us and helps with the bills we have. my boyfriend once told me how my mother talks to him about how much money I make and believes that I am hiding money from her. it crazy and gets me upset. she always wants to eat the food he cooks for me yet when she cooks she does not make sure we eat. most of the time our money goes into buying food for us on the road so we do make sure we eat. we do buy food to put in the house but people just eat it without even asking. my mother has gotten so toxic that my older brother is telling me how she use to tell his girlfriend negative things about him and wanted them to break up as if she was planning an evil plan on him to not be with his girlfriend so my brother is telling me to be careful and to not let mommy get in between our relationship. sometimes we do argue but only realize that it because of the negativity from my mom. 

its gotten so bad that I just want to hurry up and graduate with my masters and move far away from her.