my partners family wanted a driver to take them on a 9 days trip abroad but they never invited me just my partner.ok i was hurt and upset . but then my partners 22 year old niece asked my partner to go and see a film with her this niece isnt local its a 3 hour round trip her niece didn't ask if i wanted to go. now the same niece in front of me asked my partner to go to a comic con with her,my partner did say she would have to check as we had alot on next month and why didnt she take her friends,but her niece pulled this face and said her voice now going to a screech that her friends was already going there,so my partner suggested she meets her friends there ,her niece just pulled a face again because she couldnt think of a answer. but her niece kept going on and on until my partner said she would go with her. but on our way home i realised that it is the same weekend as my joint birthday party my friend is giving for me as my friends birthday is a week after mine. also it is easter weekend so there is local events i would like to go to but my partner said she was still going to this comic con with her niece and she would be back at 6pm for my joint party but i know her niece she will do all she can to keep my partner there. her niece has on occasions been nasty and rude to me but either my partner says she hasnt heard her or makes excuses up for her niece. i'll give you one example,its christmas time at my partners sisters house,alot of her family are there,i'm sat there no one is really talking to me so i pick up one of the younger nieces toy like a puzzle ball .my partners 22 old nice says right across the room "put that down i don't want it breaking" i have never felt so humiliated i am over 50 years old i had only picked it up to see what it was out of boredom. and to be spoken to like that. but of course conveniently my partner never heard her say this. this last instance of her niece asking my partner to this comic con and not me i did say something to my partner but when my partner said her niece only had a free pass for 2 people i said i would had paid for my own ticket and this is the second time her niece has only asked her not me but my partner snapped at me and told me to stop trashing her niece so i shut up. i need advice how do i explain to my partner how hurt i feel that i'm not invited and how hurt i feel she will always jump to the defence of her family but they can say what they like to me and about me but she never defends me.
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