Family Issues Support Group
Family issues is a huge range that go from minor conflict to major misbehaviour and even abuse on the part of individual members of the family occur. Whether you feel you are in a dysfunctional family or you're dealing with a very specific issue, this is the place to talk about it and find others who might be going through the same thing.
I am sorry that happened to you. Sometimes people don't know how to react so they shut off...maybe that's is what your dad is doing. and you are imagining that he has taken sides......I hope you are not seeing that BF and that you get a police order in writing..Just to protect youself.
But one thing I've noticed is that you've not posted the story of what actually happened with the BF and your dad and how you feel your dad betrayed you. (If you did and I missed it, I'm sorry.)
Maybe if you tell the story, it can help you and help us to help you.
Just a suggestion.
My bf assaulted me in a traumatic way
My dad came over acting like he didn't care
Then he talked down at me and when he talked to me
Was sarcastic and talked to me in a horrible way