Family Issues Support Group
Family issues is a huge range that go from minor conflict to major misbehaviour and even abuse on the part of individual members of the family occur. Whether you feel you are in a dysfunctional family or you're dealing with a very specific issue, this is the place to talk about it and find others who might be going through the same thing.
Hello everyone I am new to this group I am 24 years old I still live at home with my parents due to my mental disability I am under guardianship I have been to be on it for 5 years I hate being under guardianship I have been in and out of mental hospitals for years My mom and me are not very close at all we fight all of the time I yell and scream at her and cuss her out When She won't let me hang out with my friends The other night we got into a huge argument I hate fighting with my mom I just wish she could understand how I am feeling I cant talk to her about whats wrong because she does not understand Shes always afraid that I am going to get hurt if I hang out with my friends She said last night that if she lets me go out if my friends and I get hurt or killed that she will get into trouble. because she promised the court that she would look after me and take care of me in need of support right now.
I'm sorry for your situation. Is there a therapist, family member, or clergy member you could talk to? Without knowing the situation of why there's guardianship, I don't have much advice. However, I pray you find some peace.
Katie
I said a special prayer for you today and I want to share with you what I feel that God wants for you to know.
You are a very sensitive and impressionable young person. Because of your emotional nature, you really should spend very little time mingling within different support groups at this site; some are more than your spirit can cope with. Find one group at this DS community that encourages you to serve others well. Your kind and understanding spirit is a gift to many for the purpose of emotional healing for you and with others. Keep at teaching others about the fullness of the gospel of Jesus Christ.
You should stay committed to only attempt to help others who desire to study and understand the holy scriptures, and be careful not to force those that are not ready to hear the gospel message, nor should you force anyone to listen or read of what you write. Others will challenge your spiritual beliefs, and there will be those unbelievers or misguided who will attempt to take advantage of hurting you or discouraging you good works. Then, pray for Gods strength to help you endure and bless God to nourish your spirit even more. You can learn much by this method of support.
And please, dont come to this support community every day; begin by setting aside one of two days a week, from twenty to thirty minutes for support activities. But remember to use your strong emotions to help others ease their pain and this will help you to feel good about you as well. Again, avoid reading others strong issues with the mind to help them psychologically, only a skilled and trained therapist can help them to understand their psychiatric types of health concerns. Your opportunity to help is in finding useful Bible scriptures to uplift and encourage others faith in Jesus Christ and His promise of spiritual healing for body and mind.
I pray today for you to stay strong, healthy and happy. I promise to you that if you do as God suggest here, you will grow stronger and develop many talents and abilities to assist your very own healing. And do remember to keep faith that you will grow together in love and friendship with your family. Manage your time with family very wisely. Bless you, tabby!
Aelle
Its a tough time for you right now; I'm sorry to hear that. We can give you support out here whenever you need to vent. No one is going to have the magical answer for you but we can certainly listen when you need us.
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