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After responding to a couple of the on-going comments on Amazon book review my assessment is that They are dangerous vindictive people and you and he should should stay clear. Period JanetM
I wouldn't trust them.
I just want them to stop. I don't know how they can run out of information... they have quite a bit as I am sure you remember. Just 5k is a lot. It looks like they've raised it according to their main site.
They will NEVER actually pay $$$ to you. And if he does try to co-operate and "gives them an interview" They will video and photo shop and the splice what he says until everyone watching will think he made a fool of himself. They will upload their doctored up video to UTube or facebook or TV so it goes viral and everyone laugh at his expense. They intend to hurt him even more.
They are laughing up their sleeves because they see you are about to trust them, fall for their fake offer of 5K and fall for their sting. All they want is to take advantage and and say GOTCHA! (again) You are right to fear they are just trying to get more and more to use against you both.The 5K is not real it's just BAIT and whatever you do they will not pay-up ever. They are gaming you.
I know what I'm telling you sounds harsh. But please do not fall for this. You and he will just be hurt more and be made to look stupid just because you wanted to believe someone would listen to your side this time so much that you fell for their cruel game again.
They have not changed. Like you said, "not nice" so do not try to be nice in hopes they will be 'nice' back. They have not changed. They have not. Just go and re-read their book comments on Amazon. Please. Protect yourself.
They just don't know the whole story. They think he was lurking around looking to get into trouble, when he was really just trying to make it in music and his dream career. They shouldn't judge him with some chat log and phone calls. They think that's all he's ever done. They don't know the good he's done
There are probably a few hundred YouTube videos making fun of him now :(
You're best course of action is to stop responding to them and just let them die out. It will happen eventually. If you stop giving them new material, they will become bored and it will eventually go away. Just leave it alone.
People get bored with things after a while, especially when you no longer feed into their bullying.
I know its awful and its hard, but just stop responding to them, stop asking questions about it to them and just let it drop. They will probably poke fun at that too, but if you keep giving in to them, keep giving them material to work with it will never go away.
That is my two cents.
Stop paying attention to these people. You are only feeding the Bears. We have a stalker who loves to take what we post and puts it on their website. They twist the words to anger is, so we go to the blog to read the latest dribble. I refuse to even visit the dribble. I don't care what they have to say. Their opinion of me doesn't make any difference to me.
If there are those whom you know, want to get more info on his charge, they can ask him. They are more likely to listen, and it's their opinion that counts, not theirs.
The people who run this site keep track of trolls and the Journaling on Daily Strength is private here and would NOT mean endangering yourself (or getting in trouble for 'making $$ off your 'crime" which is in fact a Chargeable Offense whtrength and why I recommend Daily Strength to friends...
And by the way People like the Trolls in that cult do need 'new' material to keep increasing the # of views on UTube. That lot ( like the people who watch gawker) are easily bored and need more fodder/ more grist for their ugly "mill" to go "public" and make them more money (it's not you but they who need you so they can make more $$$ off their site) do feed into their scam, Deny them the $$$ they hope to make off using you and yours. Just saying.