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I met with friend of the court and child protective services and had no objections regarding my status as a RSO when I was awarded custody. I sent my kids to private schools and even paid support to my ex even though I had primary custody. Not joint custody.
The environment was much more sane back then compared to now but I have spoken to other RSO's that have had custody. I'm a tier two.
The guy in Oklahoma also had custody of his kids but he got in trouble when the police found a bullet in the back of his pick up truck. The press really tried to create a circus with his case and he had two judges side with him.
Your boyfriends case doesn't sound like the type that would prevent him from being around his own children especially if he gets favorable reports from the states experts.
The problem is usually when the children are stepchildren and especially if the child was the victim of his crime.
But no, they cannot prevent him from having children with you and living with those children.
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Prosecutors often try to civilly commit some offenders in some of the more extreme cases and states depending on the severity of the crime. In those cases of civil commitment sometimes the termination of parental rights happens.
Sometimes RSO's even win custody and that really was my point. It depends on many things and the fact that the victim was 17 I think makes a difference compared to if the victim was 5 and severely injured. All it takes is one person to petition a court or claim child endangerment and you have to prove you are not a danger anymore. Being on the registry you have already been declared a dangerous person to society as I have.
The difficult to understand part comes in when top experts declare you rehabilitated and a low risk then the state calls you a moderate risk. So much just depends on the people that access you. I'm absolutely positive I could have been declared a tier one or tier three depending on who accessed me.
I will pass this along to my partner. I will let him know that him getting help and complying and getting good ratings will be beneficial on many levels.
Although, I will admit. Hes naturally a laid back guy, and is someone that will comply and address what he needs too while incarcerated.
Thank you.