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I was so glad to see your comment.
I read the original article, with his picture, and before I even read the article, I could tell this young man was developmentally disabled. After reading his so called offenses, I believe that he most likely has the mentality of a 5 yr. old.
So touching people inappropriately is not something he most likely understood.
In my opinion, he should have never gone to prison. He needed help. I feel really sad for him.
Is anyone any safer when someone like him, who doesn't understand, is now homeless?
I was actually shocked that the police dept. did what they did. They're the ones who are the criminals, in my opinion. I would like to know who the judge was that sentenced him.
So Seciv, I agree that the CP charges are unreasonable, but this poor sole is no monster.
But then ...what if this kid did meet some dangerous people in prison what if he was raped or "offended" offended- against while in prison??? Just his "just deserts for grabbing the buttocks in broad day light of
some "nice 15" year old orsome older nice woman? (who should not have been bothered but what if that had been her son or her developmentally delayed grandson would she have seen things a little differently...would she now be commenting with the rest of us on Daily Strength instead of telling the cops "Well done" and been happy to pay her taxes toward keeping the justice system s=arresting and jailing and shunning and leaving us all to age out on the Registry if we were lucky enough to make parole and smart enough to avoid being revoked for d=some chicken shit something....but I digress...because the horrors of what if / of rough trip are about to play out here for this kid sliced and diced and left to wend his way through America's injustice system fort the rest of his "natural life"
And Pheonixmum...no I beg to differ (event to rant awhile here) C ivil Commitment in one of California's Civil Commitment Ppsychiatric "Facilities" in not the handy dandy answer to help kids like this it does not even help others labeled as dangerously deranged sex offenders and sent away "forever and always at
tax payer expense...NO that is NOT the "Solution" Just talk to the CoSA advocates in Cali if you need to educate or want to Advocate...or contact Charlie Sullivan at cure@ curenational.org they are trying to get some people together to advocate for people like this kid sent to the end of the line prisons called "Civil Committment / aks offender Facilitise in 29 states including Cali...Just saying OK just Ranting but
If we don't rant on don't realize, don't educate ourselves and each other and then our neighbors ...who (pray tell) will?
As far as Civil Committment in the US...People with relatives who are rightly diagnosed as paranoid or schizophrenic and are (I learned a New Word from listening to a call from Cure National about the difference between "Criminal Civil Committment Facilities" and the other mental health Civil Commitment actual health care facilities is that people who are advocating on behalf of their on loved one who has (I learned a new word here) anosignosia sp? (some one diagnosed with an actual mental illness which could be helped if they just got on their meds (or got back on their meds) but are adults and refusing medication which will allow they to go back to living relatively lives in their communities) whsee loved one doesn't realize that they are "hearing voices" and that their "voices" are not really their best guide to what to do in the real world...then these Advocates for Mentel Health services that include MH civil commitment as a component of actual Heath Care/ doctor's prescriptions etc ...need and support civil commitment...
However it seems every Label morphs here in the US and haters (who in the 1950's used the fact that homosexualaity then called the all purpose label " Pervert" just like sex offenders are labeled now anyway, homosexuallity (and homosexuals) were labeled as a for-ever uncontrollable sexually dangerous "mental illness" found labeled in the Psychiatric bible... the DSM Homosexual back then were "Evaluated" zand sent to places that have now morphed (in the US) into the Prison Civil Commitment Facilities which are not Mental Health facilities / hospitals that people who support Civil commitment mean when they suggest their loved one needs civil commitment so they can actually get better (even if today they might simply be same-sex-oriented and ALSO paranoid and off their meds!) clear as mud here? I'm sure in the UK where the haters haven't managed to morph SO into always mentally ill dangerous and criminal that this seems a little convoluted however..in the US once the labels are muddied up and morphed into Proff that "Once a mentally ill criminal SO then...always a SO-criminal in danger of repeating and so stack up the labels as they morp over the years into the NEED for a direct petition into a "Civil Commitment/ Prison "Facility" where dangerous "Offenders of every sexual orientation...must be incarcerated for ever by Evaluators gone mad who rubber stamp the pre-sentence investigation report right on to all the other "therapists and well paid hired gun Evaporators going on through the justice system and on to "Facilities" ( not labeled civil commitment Facilities) where the untreatable/ never treated/ just labeled dangerous aka "sexually dangerous must either "get better" or die...it's the end of the line in the American Justice System....sort of like end stage cancer with no one to even care that had sometime been done sooner maybe even if the "medical/ treatment community had been more educated and less prejudiced by the labels of the haters...?
Any way Label DO matter as they morph into politically correct terms but still kill people...you can see the this morphing in action when you look at the term / labels used in the story of Johnathan Micheal Hopper since (unless he was seriously damaged by what was done to him while he was in prison) anyway Jonanthan himself has not become progressively more of a dangerous sex offender than he ever was even in the beginning when the labeling first began...However since his Hater-labels telegraph that he is in fact more dangerous he has to live under a bridge...and as his life progress apace with his labeling I am certain some day someone will place him in some (prison ) and call it Civil Commitment when it is indeed imprisonment
And this Muddling of the words and intent of" what Civil Commitment" means and should (not ) be is not only and Injustice to us in Families of Sex Offenders BUT the mis-labeling / mis-direction of these labels and words by the ignorant and the HATERS among us
ALSO denies the Families of the Mentally ill access to support and resources they need to actually help their own loved ones....(many some other people in other "groups" on Daily Strength??? But good news these words don't seem to have morphed their poison in the UK so thank you hoenixmon for pushing us all into understand better all these WORDS used to MIS-label not just us but other advocacy groups...in the US
JanetM..
There was a trial, where we caught the prosecutor in the hallway coaching her how to answer a rebuttal. It was basically a circus.
He ended up with a hung-jury and the prosecutor swore next time she would do whatever necessary to keep out certain evidence in my husband's favor.
So, he took a plea to a misdemeanor of Indecent Assault, for 3 mos in jail, 3 yrs on probation, and 10 years on the registry. He went through multiple assessments as well and was found to be low-risk.
Well, the AWA was adopted a few years later, and they go by age of the accuser/victim not actual risk. So, now, he's on for life, and he's a tier 3 "high risk"
That's how reliable this whole thing is