For those of you who look for answers and like to read I have a suggestion. I am the type to have to research and try to find meaning. What i found is that sometimes there is no answer. We always ask why. Its that it will solve all our problems. Not! But i do find comfort in reading. I want to connect to those who are experiencing what I am. So here i go on the internet, looking for answers, reading books. Blah blah blah. I have found a book that truly made a difference in how i think. I believe that this book made me realize i have a choice. I can chose to hate a man or chose to love and forgive. Not an easy quest.

So for those who love to read, please look into "Through the Glass" by Shannon Moroney. I wont go into detail so I wont bore you. But i can tell you this woman has quite the story and compassion. This is a woman who has gone through perhaps more than us. I found someone who i felt a connection. Too bad she lives in Canada and does most her speeches there. She is coming to the US in March. Its in Minneapolis minnesota. I am going to try and make this a destination. My daughter will turn 21 during this conference.

So i have a choice. Of course i would rather have my daughter spend her 21st birthday with her friends. But then again to see this woman speak with my daughter may be a milestone. I am truly amazed by her and her decision to stand by him.