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2 sentences really churned up the bile, "recidivism rate is 13%", and this, "“Seeing these men in plainclothes sitting across from me reminds me that they are people. But they’re lions in sheep’s clothing.” the last sentence alludes to men in general. way to go... further the fear and hint that ALL men are or will be offenders.
the only good thing about the whole thing was the statement that while FL spends tons of money to punish they spend little to prevent.
Yet conversations about child sexual abuse often focus on horrific examples of stranger danger. We find comfort in searching registries to find out whether registered sex offenders live in our neighborhoods. We tell our children not to talk to strangers. And we label men and women who abuse children as monsters. This demonizing of strangers is extremely dangerous, considering that 1 in 3 girls and 1 in 5 boys are sexually abused by the time they turn 18, and around 90 percent of individuals with developmental disabilities will be sexually abused at some point,"
Still, those big-ticket criminal justice efforts tend to get all the money and attract all the headlines. Yet these initiatives, Finkelhor says, “mostly pertain to people already identified and arrested—and only about 10 percent of new cases of abuse involve someone who has a prior record. Even if you lock up everybody who had been convicted of an offense, you’d only be taking care of 10 percent of the problem.... We need more prevention and treatment in this area, but that costs money and legislators don’t want to do that.”
The young man who downloaded a few naughty pictures is not the same type of offender as the John Couey who kidnapped and raped Jessica Lunsford and buried her alive. He was just a sick, evil person.
The young 19 year old adult who decides to have consensual sex with a 14 year old is not in the same category as the monster who murdered Adam Walsh and cut his head off.
The older horny, lonely guy who tries to set a date up with an underage minor over the internet is hardly the same kind of person that sexually abused Lauren Book for years on end.
But all the offenders are treated the same with the same blanket treatment.
The fathers mentioned and Miss Book no doubt suffered a tremendous tragedy with their loss and I am the first to acknowledge that fact. If my child was buried alive or treated like Adam Lunsford or Lauren Book, I don't think I could ever get over it.
But you cannot punish 800,000 offenders for what a few have done. It is not feasible, it is not moral, it is too expensive, and it is simply against everything this country should stand for.
But Mr. Lunsford, Mr. Walsh, Mr. Book and Lauren garner so much sympathy that nobody has the courage to tell them that their approach is wrong. For some reason, nobody wants to tell them the truth for fear their feelings will be hurt.
If we ever hope to solve some of these problems with crime and sex offenders, we must take the politics out of the equation and look at the unvarnished facts for a solution.
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