Families of Prisoners Support Group
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Last night a called me telling me the govs found alcohol in his room. so him and his cell mate are getting questioned, waittt, 1 how the fuck do you even get alcohol into prison? he said hes back to basics. i said good you little shit. prison isnt a summer camp youve been bad so pay for it. am i being harsh?
I would just said consider your self lucky your not in the hole!!
Prisons are not a holiday camp. Think about it they get told what, when, how to do it right down to what they wear it may sound easy but think about this his stuck with people he probably wouldn't normally hang out with and some of those people can dangerous or just plain sick i dont call that a holiday camp.
The other thing is coz they found that his likely to get tested for the rest of his time and it may make get parole that bit harder so he could not saying the he will but could be in there for a bit longer.....parole or tagged out they take into consideration everything and i mean everything that they do in there...including relationships on the outside.
You have every right to be mad about it and i would be worried if you weren't mad about it but just keep what i said in mind.
The understanding always was that if the drugs were found, my cellmate would man up and admit they belonged to him. But they don't always do that.
The alcohol could have been there and he might not have even known about it.
I would cut him some slack until you have more information.
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His lucky in one way here they would of moved him to a higher security prison so say if he was low he would go to medium if he was medium he would go max....especially if the alcohol was his.
Tell him b what does in there can effect you not just him but and his family.....it can be hard to get into there heads i watched a mate have the same sort of fight as what you are right now its hard.
Hugs.
He should know that he get more time 30 days isn't that much really but tell him every time he screws up its another 30 days of being told what to do when to do and how to do i don't know anyone who likes that!
My guy's been having a rough 2 weeks and almost went to the hole but he didn't because lawd we already have enough time lol!
Yes waking up beside them is the best and its worth the wait really it is!
The crying thing...is normal i cryed on and off for the whole time my man did you have good days and crappy days its all part of the ride i hate to say....but when you have a crap day talk to us we can at least listen to you.
Hugs.